Thursday, September 1, 2011

Kevin Meaney and Sue Murphy at the JCC, 9/17

Saturday Night A-list Stand-up Comedy in Marin with
Kevin Meaney & Sue Murphy >>>The Dating Game


Presented by The Osher Marin JCC & The Other Café Comedy Showcase
Saturday, Sept 17 @ 8pm
SPECTRUM E-LIST MEMBERS: USE THE DISCOUNT CODE:” bigpants” when secure your ADVANCE tickets and receive the members’ discount when purchasing tickets
Two headliners in one night
This showcase brings two San Francisco A-List Comedy minds back to the Bay Area for One Night only. Plus a hilarious comedy club version of The Dating Game, hosted by Kevin and Sue
For those familiar with the SF comedy scene you know these two comedians are among the most beloved comedic minds in SF comedy history. If you have never seen them work, don’t miss this rare chance and if you have – you know that no two shows are ever the same with these two.
Since leaving SF, KEVIN has been one of the country's most popular standup comedians and has headlined clubs and theaters throughout the country, starred in the CBS sitcom Uncle Buck, and on Broadway in Hairspray.
SUE has won 2 Emmys for her work writing and producing the Ellen Degeneres Show and has performed on numerous national television shows including her own half-hour special Comedy Central Presents Sue Murphy, and is currently the Co-Executive Producer on the hit nightly show on E! Network Chelsea Lately.  Both artists have made numerous appearances on David Letterman and The Tonight Show with Jay Leno.
TICKETS:
Limited RESERVED table seating available
Advance: $30 OMJCC/Other Café Members* / $35 public
Day of:  $40
GENERAL admission
Advance: $20 OMJCC/Other Café Members/ $25 public
Day of: $30

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Gays Struggling to Connect in Marin: A Response

Thanks to Paul Liberatore for shining a light on the LGBT community in Marin. Spectrum LGBT Center has been in Marin since 1982, providing programs and services for, and on behalf of, the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community in the North Bay.

http://www.marinij.com/lifestyles/ci_18736256?source=most_viewed

Throughout my 13 years as executive director, I’ve heard many LGBT people lament that they cannot find other gay people in Marin. I believe that many LGBT people living in Marin actually LIKE the fact that there is no gay ‘scene’. They have escaped gay culture and are quietly living among their straight neighbors, raising families and hosting backyard barbeques. Older LGBT people in their 70s and 80s often tend to be less open about who they are, much like their peers throughout the U.S. This tendency, by the way, puts older LGBT people at great risk for isolation and depression.

A sort of assimilation occurs in Marin County, not because it is such an open and accepting place for LGBT people, but because some LGBT people are reluctant to be completely out and visible here. Why?

I offer this observation: It’s not cool to be blatantly gay here in Marin. A standard of conformity compels some to remove the rainbow bumper stickers from the cars, and keep the gay flag inside the house. Marin, after all, is a well-heeled county. We can’t have our glitter falling just anywhere. We’ve learned how to pass.

We like to think of Marin as being progressive, fair-minded, and accepting of all people. But consider this: In 2008, 25% of Marin voters rejected gay marriage. The idea of incorporating gay people into middle and high school history lessons infuriates many in this county, and not just because it is now required by law. Many assisted living facilities in Marin prevent same-sex couples from occupying the same room, giving preference to married heterosexual couples. And, while there are a number of congregations that welcome LGBT people and families, Marin’s faith communities are divided on this issue. (A little-known fact: for nearly 40 years, San Rafael has been home to a prominent founder of the ex-gay movement, who advertises his ministry as ‘finding freedom from homosexuality’).

Spectrum has long been involved with educating the community about acceptance, understanding, and full inclusion for LGBT people. We are making every effort to open doors among traditional communities to start dialog and raise awareness. It’s not always easy, but there have been positive shifts within our schools and community institutions since our founding in 1982.

Here’s the good news: there are, in fact, a number of events that occur on a regular basis for the LGBT community. Spectrum keeps our website calendar updated with all that we know about at www.spectrumLGBTcenter.org. If you are one of those gays struggling to find your community in Marin, don’t expect to bump in to it on the street. You’re going to have to get out and find it. And, if you are willing to be out like Vincent and Douglass, give me a call. We need you to help us create the community you’re hoping to find.

Paula Pilecki, Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
(415) 472-1945, ext. 209
www.spectrumLGBTcenter.org

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Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Spectrum LGBT Center Brings GEN SILENT to Marin County in September

Spectrum LGBT Center's SEEN THROUGH FILM Project is bringing GEN SILENT to Marin County on Thursday, September 8th

This important new documentary by filmmaker Stu Maddux highlights the challenges facing aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people.

TWO SCREENINGS:Both are free and open to the public

Thursday, September 8, 10:00 am – 11:00 am
Margaret Todd Senior Center
1560 Hill Road, Novato
Co-sponsored by the Marin County Division of Aging and Adult Services
A short version of the film, followed by discussion, during the regular meeting of the Marin County Commission on Aging.

Thursday, September 8, 7:15 pm – 9:00 pm
The Redwoods - A Community of Seniors
40 Camino Alto, Mill Valley
Featuring the full-length film with discussion.

SPECIAL GUEST AT BOTH EVENTS: Award-winning director and filmmaker, Stu Maddux

RSVP requested to
(415) 472-1945 x209
Please state which date(s) you will attend.

GEN SILENT is a new documentary from award-winning director, documentary film¬maker, and Marin County resident, Stu Maddux. What would you do if you were old, disabled or ill ‐and the person feeding you put down the spoon and explained that you are going to hell unless you change your sexual orientation? Sound absurd? According to social workers, it’s happening every day.

This hour-long film explores the challenges facing lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender older adults who must depend on a system of care that is reluctant to recognize their needs. As we witness the challenges that these men and women face, we also see hope as each subject crosses paths with an impassioned professional trying in their own way to change an entire care industry.

For more information about the film, visit the GEN SILENT website.

Spectrum LGBT Center’s Seen Through Film Project builds community among, and raises awareness about the real lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people. Support for this project is provided by a grant from Marin Community Foundation, with additional funding from PG&E Corporation. For more information, visit Spectrum’s website at www.spectrumLGBTcenter.org.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

"History Should Be Honest" - The FAIR Act

History Repeats Itself with The FAIR Act by Ruth Dell

On July 13, 2011, Governor Jerry Brown signed the FAIR (Fair, Accurate, Inclusive and Respectful) Education Act, authored by our state senator, Mark Leno. The law provides that the historical contributions of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people and disabled individuals be accurately and fairly portrayed in public school instructional materials. LGBT and disabled people are being added to an existing list of underrepresented cultural and ethnic groups that California already requires to be recognized in instructional materials, including Native Americans, Mexican Americans, African Americans and Asian Americans. In his signing statement, Governor Brown said, “History should be honest.”

In 1966, California conservatives were outraged when our state board of education adopted a new junior high school textbook. They claimed that the book’s inclusion of a discussion of the civil rights movement and an expanded section on important African Americans would indoctrinate students undermine religious values, and politicize the curriculum. Now, of course, it is commonplace and non-controversial in California for schools to recognize the contributions of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and other African Americans and to celebrate Black History Month.

Sadly, on July 15, 2011, the Capitol Resource Institute (CRI), a Sacramento-based right-wing organization that has long opposed gay rights, announced its intention to start a voter referendum to repeal the bill. Whether or not CRI can garner the 500,000 signatures required for the ballot remains to be seen. But the institute is acting within a dangerous tradition that seeks to promote to schoolchildren a vision of America that is both inaccurate and harmful.

The arguments for excluding LGBT history simply do not withstand scrutiny. The Traditional Values Coalition stated that the FAIR Act will be a “pro homosexual promotion tool” and be used to “indoctrinate children.” Teaching history, of course, is not indoctrination. How does studying the life and accomplishments of San Francisco politician Harvey Milk constitute indoctrination? How would learning that Aaron Copland, composer of such American classics as “Appalachian Spring” and “Rodeo” is gay, indoctrinate students? There is no reason for students not to learn about the Proposition 8 case, which addresses the constitutionality of prohibiting gay marriage and is currently on appeal in the 9th Circuit.

In contrast to the unpersuasive arguments against the FAIR Act, there are compelling reasons to support it. Inclusive history lessons may lead to safer outcomes for students. Our state and country has tragically seen an upsurge in the number of bullied LGBT teens who have committed suicide. Hopefully, a complete teaching of history can help these students feel a greater part of their schools and communities. Shannon Minter, legal director at the National Center for Lesbian Rights, stated that the FAIR Act “is about breaking a very damaging cycle of silence and stigma… for the first time, we will have a generation of LGBT youth who are growing up seeing themselves reflected and included in public institutions.”

Opposition to acknowledging LGBT rights in instructional materials rarely stands alone as an issue; it is usually linked to an extreme right wing agenda. Texas exemplifies this. In 2010, Texas adopted the following social studies standards: Jefferson Davis (president of the Confederacy) deserves equal billing as President Abraham Lincoln; the National Rifle Association deserves praise for upholding the U.S. Constitution (no discussion of a contrary view of the Second Amendment), all references to President Obama should include his middle name, Hussein. The guidelines took out references to Thurgood Marshall (the first African American U.S. Supreme Court Justice) and Cesar Chavez (Hispanic farm worker and community leader) - this in a state where the majority of students are of color. The guidelines were primarily written by a dentist, and derided by conservative and liberal historians alike. Texas guidelines for health are also historically inaccurate - Texas is required to teach that marriage is only between a man and a woman; this in a country where six states and Washington, D.C. recognize marriage equality.

Californians should be proud that we are the first in the nation to specifically include the contributions of LGBT people in public school materials. We were also one of the first states, in 1948, to recognize that people of different races had the right to marry one another. The U.S. Supreme Court did not reach this conclusion until 1967; today, one in fifteen married people in this country is married to someone of a different race. Someday, hopefully soon, the inclusion of LGBT history will be the standard everywhere and seen for what it is - acknowledging ALL the people that contribute to our great nation, gay and straight.

Ruth Dell (pictured) is a retired attorney who volunteers for Spectrum and other nonprofit organizations.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Marin Youth Photovoice Campaign


The Youth Leadership Institute is now seeking high-school age youth
participants for a summer-long project using photography to build
awareness of current social justice issues. This is a special invitation to encourage LGBTQQ*-identified youth to participate!

Orientation and Kick-Off Meeting Tuesday, May 24, 4 - 8 PM; dinner provided. San Rafael location (call for address).

To sign up or get more info, contact Kristen Law, MA, klaw@yli.org or (415) 836-9160, ext. 225.

Meeting a few hours every other week throughout the summer, Photovoice Campaign participants will:

*Advocate for social justice and accepting school environments by photographing and documenting your own experiences
*Work collaboratively with other youth
*Have an opportunity to learn social justice photography and get your work displayed in a community exhibit
*Promote positive change and acceptance in your school and community
*Gain skills in photography, research, and public speaking

Photovoice is for everyone - no experience needed.

*Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning.

DOWNLOAD A COPY OF THE FLYER HERE

Friday, May 6, 2011

SB 5 Defeated; Legislative Victory for Marriage Equality in CA

On May 3, SB 5, the Automatic Proposition Standing Bill, which would have required the state of California to defend ballot measures adopted by voters, including Prop 8, was defeated. The bill never made it out of the Senate Judiciary Committee; the five Democrats on the committee voted against the bill, the three Republicans voted for it. Anti-marriage equality advocates were solidly behind the bill; had it passed, it would have required the Attorney General to defend Prop 8. Former Attorney General (now governor) Jerry Brown and current Attorney General Kamala Harris refuse to defend Prop 8 on the basis that it is unconstitutional. The defeat of SB 5 was a legislative victory for the marriage equality movement in California.

Posted by Ruth Dell, Spectrum's Marriage Equality Correspondent

A Personal Invitation from Kate Clinton: Watch the Vlog!

Watch this video of Kate Clinton, in her personal invitation to The Glee Party on Sunday, May 22nd.

Kate Clinton brings her Glee Party to Marin County on Sunday, May 22nd, 1 PM at Hoytt Theater, Osher Marin Jewish Community Center, 200 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael. Tickets: $45. A benefit for Spectrum, the North Bay's LGBT center.

Thursday, May 5, 2011

LA MISSION - THE MOVIE at Pickleweed Community Center, 6/8

Spectrum LGBT Center, in partnership with Canal Alliance, invites you to the first movie of the Seen Through Film Series: LA MISSION

Wednesday, June 8, 6:00 - 8:00 PM
Pickleweed Community Center
50 Canal Street, San Rafael, CA

FREE EVENT - Food will be provided

DOWNLOAD SPANISH/ENGLISH FLYERS HERE (pdf)

Growing up in the Mission district, Che Rivera has always had to be tough to survive. He’s a powerful man respected throughout the Mission barrio for his masculinity and his strength, as well as for his hobby building beautiful lowrider cars. A reformed inmate and recovering alcoholic, Che has worked hard to redeem his life and do right by his pride and joy: his only son, Jes, whom he has raised on his own after the death of his wife. Che’s path to redemption is tested, however, when he discovers Jes is gay.

To survive his neighborhood, Che has always lived with his fists. To survive as a complete man, he’ll have to embrace a side of himself he’s never shown. Rated R. Starring Benjamin Bratt.

Film Presentation Supporters: Adopt A Family, Asian Advocacy Project, Big Brothers Big Sisters of the North Bay, Brazilian Alliance, Marin Child Care Council, Parent Voices/Parent Services Project

Media Sponsors: Univision Channel 14, Community Media Center of Marin, Nuestras Voces, Avance News, La Voz Bilingual Newspaper

Food Sponsor: Claudia Cardoza, LUSO-American Life Insurance

SEEN THROUGH FILM is a project of Spectrum LGBT Center. It explores the lives of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender people. The series includes films that will educate, provoke conversation, entertain and appeal to a diverse population.

SEEN THROUGH FILM is funded by a grant from the Marin Community Foundation.

Sonoma County Gatherings for LGBT Older Aduts

Join Spectrum for lively discussions, mutual support, sharing information, and all the while celebrating who we are.

Spectrum's social support groups for LGBT older adults have been meeting in Sonoma for nearly three years. Everyone is welcome; there is no charge. Whether you're in the closet or out, you are welcome!

The Santa Rosa Group: Meets on the 4th Tuesday of the month, 1:30 PM - 3:00 PM, at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation (Glaser Center), Santa Rosa.

The Sonoma Valley Group: Meets on the 3rd Friday of the month, 10:30 am - 12 noon, at Vintage House Senior Center, Sonoma.

For more information, call Gary Shepard, Spectrum's Sonoma Project Coordinator, at 707-583-2330 (message line, checked frequently).

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

A Gleeful Kate Clinton Slated to Perform at Spectrum Benefit

Kate Clinton is coming to San Rafael and bringing her Glee Party with her.

In a tour that she describes as "part glee and part tea" she looks at the expectation in society that all problems can be solved in one hour minus commercial breaks with a few song and dance numbers thrown in. Her performance at the Hoytt Theater will benefit Spectrum's advocacy programs for LGBT youth.

Clinton is a wise cracking politically minded comedian whose swift wit has been entertaining audiences for over 25 years. Her shows are a mix of news of the day, commentary and observational humor covering religion, politics and LGBT issues.

Humor has long been a tool in creating political change. From court jesters and Jonathan Swift in the past to Steven Colbert and John Stewart today, comedy can say things about a society that cannot be said in other ways. Clinton is part of this tradition, asking the hard questions and as she says, ãtelling the truth no on would say.ä

Comedy also breaks down the barriers between people. "People hear each other in a light moment," Clinton said. Sometimes after a show she will be approached by a member of the audience who says, "I am a Republican but I still laughed." She laughs, "Should I congratulate them?"

According to Kate we all have the opportunity to make a difference but we need to realize that political action is sexy.

"Have you gone door to door with a friend?" She quips and continues say that we need to get out and do more then just send emails. "Moving your body around" is important, create community, have potlucks, get people together she advises starting a book club where ideas are exchanged and taken out into the world.
The creation of community is part of what Spectrum is doing in San Rafael. Their programs offer support groups for LGBTQ youth ages 14-19, GSA clubs and a new collaborative project with Youth Leadership Institute to create positive high school environments for LGBT youth.

The importance of community in creating political change is not lost on Paula Pilecki, Executive Director Spectrum LGBT Center. "We can provide support for kids who have been bullied in school; we can educate parents and guardians whose kids are gay; we can work with schools to be proactive about enforcing zero tolerance anti-bullying policies; and we can advocate for legislation that will protect all students, regardless of real or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity. None of these activities can stand alone; we need all of it to make a difference, and we need many voices in order to be heard", Pilecki said.
Kate will be performing on May 22 at, 1:00 PM in the Hoytt Theater, Osher Marin Jewish Community Center, 200 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael. Tickets are available exclusively through Spectrum at http://www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org/. (415) 472-1945, ext. 209.

Reposted from Gaysonoma.com

Quinn Conklin 03 May 2011

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Interfaith Freedom Seder: "The Freedom to Dream"

The Jewish Community Relations Council presents the annual Interfaith Freedom Seder, "Freedom to Dream"

Monday, April 11, 6:30 p.m.
Osher Marin JCC, 200 N. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
with Rabbi Henry Shreibman, Reconstructionist Rabbincal College and Rev. Dr. Barbara Rowe, Westminster Presbyterian Church

Download the flyer here (pdf)

We will celebrate the festival of Passover with a delicious vegetarian dinner, a gathering of old and new friends, traditional and new music by Fred Ross-Perry, Fredi Bloom and and the Interfaith Singers and we’ll hear about dreams of citizenship, marriage equality and more.

$25 adults, $20 students, $15 children 12 & under

For reservations: 415-444-8000

Questions? Contact Suzan Berns, 415-472-5128 or sberns@jcrc.org
Sponsored by the Jewish Community Relations Council / North Bay Region, Osher Marin JCC, Jewish Community Federation/Marin Region, Gan HaLev, Jewish Congregation of the San Geronimo Valley, Marin Interfaith Council, Congregation Rodef Sholom, Congregation Kol Shofar, Jewish Family & Children’s Services

JCRC is a beneficiary of the Jewish Community Federation

Monday, March 21, 2011

An LGBT Gathering in West Marin, 3/26

Heavenly Harp with Michelle Sell
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin
Saturday, March 26, 1-3 PM
San Geronimo Valley Community Center
6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Geronimo
Includes a light lunch

Suggested donation: $5 (free for adults 60+)
RSVP to (415) 472-1945 ext. 209
or RSVP here

Join Spectrum LGBT Center for our first West Marin Event with harpist Michelle Sell. Michelle has performed with Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Sammy Davis, Jr., Joni Mitchell, k.d. Lang, Linda Ronstadt, Diana Krall and many more. In addition to performing original music, Michelle will share stories from her career.

All are welcome; we extend a special invitation to LGBT older adults in West Marin.

Friendly atmosphere, easy parking, heavenly music and good company!

Monday, March 14, 2011

“Seth’s Law” Proposed to Make a Safer School Environment for California Students

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE


March 14, 2011
Assemblymember Ammiano and LGBT Equality Organizations Co-Sponsor AB 9

SACRAMENTO, Calif. - March 14 - Today, California Assemblymember Tom Ammiano will introduce a comprehensive bill that tackles school bullying by providing California schools with specific tools to prevent and address the pervasive problem in order to create a safe school environment for all students.

AB 9, also known as “Seth’s Law,” would ensure that every school in California implements updated anti-harassment and anti-discrimination policies and programs that include actual or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity and expression, as well as race, ethnicity, nationality, gender, disability, and religion. It would also empower students and parents to know what their rights are, and how to advocate for them.

"Every day in California, many students go to school fearful of another day of harassment and intimidation with no hope of a better tomorrow," said Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California, which is sponsoring the legislation. "Seth's Law will give all students the tools to seek the help they need to keep them safe and make sure that educators combat bullying in our schools."

AB 9 is named “Seth’s Law” in memory of Seth Walsh, a 13 year-old gay student from Tehachapi, California, who took his life in September 2010 after facing years of relentless anti-gay harassment at school that school officials effectively ignored.

“Seth was a wonderful, loving child, and I loved him for who he was. I can't bring my son back. But schools can make a difference today by taking bullying seriously when students and parents tell them about it. It’s time for change. We have to create a better schools for everyone,” said Wendy Walsh.

Schools often do not have the tools or knowledge to adequately protect lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students and others from bullying, which remains a serious issue across California and the rest of the nation. Students, parents, and school employees often don’t know what the rules are or what to do if bullying occurs.

"As a former teacher, I know how important it is for our students to feel safe at school. Each day throughout California, LGBT youth experience harassment. I am proud to introduce this bill in honor of Seth Walsh, which will give schools the necessary tools to prevent any young person from being bullied, harassed or worse because of their sexual orientation or gender identity and expression,” said Assemblymember Tom Ammiano.

The bill is co-sponsored by a coalition of organizations advancing LGBT equality and justice – including the ACLU’s California Affiliates, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, and Gay-Straight Alliance Network.

“Public schools have tremendous power and responsibility to protect students from bullying and harassment,” said Elizabeth Gill, Staff Attorney at the American Civil Liberties Union. “Better school procedures and policies to prevent and address bullying will make a safer environment for students who are suffering, and can even save lives.”

“Bullying can have serious and tragic consequences, particularly for students who are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender,” said Carolyn Laub, Executive Director of Gay-Straight Alliance Network. “We must take pro-active steps to ensure that California’s schools are safe for every student. Seth’s Law will help schools protect students, and prevent and respond to bullying before a tragedy occurs.”

In a recent national survey, nine out of 10 LGBT students reported being harassed at school. The problem persists in California as well, with LGBT students reporting significant harassment. The California Safe Schools Coalition reported in 2010 that 42% of California students who identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual and 62% who identify as transgender reported being harassed at least once based on gender non-conformity.

What’s more, young people often face bullying and harassment based on what their peers perceive to be their sexual orientation, regardless of whether they identify as being LGBT. According to the most recent California Healthy Kids Survey 12% of 7th graders and 10% of 9th graders reported being harassed based on their actual or perceived sexual orientation.

The consequences of bullying and harassment can include falling grades, depression, and risk of suicide. LGBT youth are three times as likely to seriously consider suicide as heterosexual youth.

"No child should fear going to school, and yet that is the daily reality for thousands of California students who face relentless harassment and bullying," said National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director Kate Kendell. "It's our responsibility to make sure schools are taking active steps to address this problem and using the tools that we know will work to create true change. It is not enough to punish students who bully. We must create a school-wide culture of inclusion and respect for difference."

Under Seth’s Law, every school district in the state would:

* Create strong and clear anti-harassment policies and programs, if they don’t have them already.
* Have a system in place to ensure that all reports of harassment are taken seriously, addressed quickly, and that parents and students understand the process of making these complaints.
* Explain the harmful impact of bullying and discrimination to students and staff.
* Provide ongoing professional development for teachers, school counselors and administrators about identifying and stopping harassment and discrimination and creating a school-wide culture of inclusion and respect for difference.

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Equality California is the largest statewide lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender rights advocacy organization in California. Over the past decade, Equality California has strategically moved California from a state with extremely limited legal protections for LGBT individuals to a state with some of the most comprehensive civil rights protections in the nation. Equality California has passed more than 70 pieces of legislation and continues to advance equality through legislative advocacy, electoral work, public education and community empowerment. http://www.eqca.org/

The American Civil Liberties Union of Northern California (ACLU-NC) is the largest affiliate of the ACLU a nationwide, nonpartisan organization with more than 550,000 members dedicated to the defense and promotion of the guarantees of individual liberty secured by state and federal Constitutions and civil rights statutes. http://www.aclunc.org/

Gay-Straight Alliance Network (GSA Network) is a national youth leadership organization that empowers youth activists to fight homophobia and transphobia in schools by training student leaders and supporting student-led Gay-Straight Alliance clubs throughout the country. In California alone, we have brought GSA clubs to 53% of public high schools, impacting more than 1.1 million students at 850 schools. GSA Network's youth advocates have played a key role in changing laws and policies that impact youth at the local and state level. GSA Network is also the founder of the Make It Better Project, which aims to stop bullying and prevent suicide. http://www.gsanetwork.org/.

The National Center for Lesbian Rights is a national legal organization committed to advancing the human and civil rights of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community through litigation, public policy advocacy, and public education. http://www.nclrrights.org/

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Legal Changes and IRS Tax Filing Rules for Same-Sex Couples

A free workshop presented by DLK LawGroup, PC, in association with Spectrum LGBT Center

Monday, March 14, 6-8 PM
Marin Justice Center Conference Room, 30 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael
RSVP via email to rsvp@dlklawgroup.com or call us at (415) 693-0550.

Income tax laws have changed dramatically for same-sex couples who are married and/or Registered Domestic Partners and estate and gift tax laws have changed as well.
Naomi E. Metz, of DLKLawGroupPC and Karen Stogdill, tax practitioner, will be presenting a seminar on the legal changes in effect as of January 1, 2011, including what you need to understand to comply with the new tax laws and file federal tax returns.

The seminar will cover the following topics:

1) New mandatory Federal income tax filing requirements for same-sex couples
2) Community property attributes during life and at death
3) Titling of your real property and other property
4) Protecting and providing for you and your family

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

MIX IT UP! LGBT Business Mixer at Sabor of Spain, 2/24

Join Spectrum at our first business mixer of 2011 at Sabor of Spain in downtown San Rafael on Thursday, February 24, 5:30 - 7:30 PM.

Owner Scott Scheidt and Event Chef Jayson Valencia invite us in for a warm winter evening at Sabor of Spain Vinoteca and Alta Cucina, serving Spanish tapas and an impressive wine and beer list.

Featuring:

-Complimentary happy hour nosh, compliments of Sabor of Spain
-No-host wine and beer bar (the list for both is fabulous)
-Raffle prize drawing (bring your business card)
-No cost to attend

RSVP requested by calling (415) 472-1945 ext. 209 or click "I'm Attending" on our Facebook page.
WHY THIS MIXER? Spectrum is the North Bay's LGBT community center.
We know local businesses want to connect with the LGBT community. We also know that LGBT consumers show a very high loyalty rate to businesses that support the LGBT community.

Our goal with this event is to introduce LGBT and LGBT-friendly businesses to LGBT people who have an interest in their services. This event is not only for B2B connections; it's for the LGBT community who live and work in Marin and beyond.

Introducing our first co-sponsors of 2011:

Sabor of Spain Vinoteca and Alta Cucina  Sabor's Facebook Page

Monty White Law LLP  - a new Rafael-based law practice

Betty's List - Thanks to Betty for organizing her new North Bay Smart Women Business Mixers around our mixer!
Want to co-sponsor this event or donate a raffle prize (min value $25)? Call Paula at (415) 472-1945 ext. 209. 
See you soon!

Monday, January 24, 2011

The $25,000 Challenge: WE DID IT!

Thanks to your generous support, we raised $26,168 during our year-end giving challenge.  With your help, we surpassed the $25k goal.  Thank you!

On December 10th, Spectrum supporters Russ Zink and Sean Callaway issued a challenge to our community.  They set a goal of raising $25,000 in year-end gifts for Spectrum, and donated the first $2,500 toward that goal.  By December 31st, we were still $3,400 away from our goal, so we extended the deadline into January. Today -- just six weeks after Sean and Russ issued the challenge -- we surpassed our goal by over $1,000. 

Thanks to the magic of social media and email, we didn't spend a dime on printing or postage.  That means more money will go toward supporting our Youth Advocacy Project, which is promoting safer schools for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning middle and high school youth.

Thanks to Russ, Sean, and those of you who followed their lead in making a contribution to Spectrum. We couldn't do our work without you!

Monday, January 3, 2011

The $25,000 Challenge: Deadline Extended to January 15th, 2011

Happy New Year, everyone!  If you've been following our $25,000 Year End Challenge, you know that we have just $3,400 left to raise in order to meet our goal. Thanks to Sean Callaway and Russell Zink, who called for the challenge and contributed the first $2,500 toward our goal. 

Knowing that many people were away for the holidays, we are extending our deadline through January 15th, 2011. Gifts and pledges of all sizes are welcome. 

You can make a donation online or by phone at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. Or, you can donate online now.

Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you in 2011!

Warmly,

Paula Pilecki, Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
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Life After Loss: Grief Group Forming for LGBT Older Adults

Life After Loss: A Grief Group for LGBT Older Adults
Begins Friday, January 14th

1:00 – 2:30 PM
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160, San Rafael, CA 94903

Facilitated by Erin Gray, Marriage and Family Therapist intern
(Sup. Nancy Gump, MFT # 25530)

To participate, call (415) 491-5700, x 2037
There is no charge to attend.

Download the flyer (pdf)

When we love and lose someone, we are overwhelmed by pain and sorrow. For lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people, mourning the loss of a partner can encompass an additional burden if there is little or no family, or support from the community.

Perhaps you felt that some didn’t approve of your relationship. Maybe you even kept it a secret. For these reasons, it may be difficult for you to trust traditional sources of support, and could benefit from being with others who had a common experience in life.

Spectrum’s Grief Group is for older adults 60 years of age and older who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, and who are grieving the loss of a significant other. The loss may be recent, or it may have been long ago.

The group will run for eight weeks beginning January 14th. Participants will be asked to commit to attending all eight sessions.



We hope you'll join us for this confidential group. If you have questions, call Erin Grey, MFTI at
(415) 491-5700, x 2037.

A Good Divorce? What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know

If you are embarking on the difficult journey of separating from your domestic partner, or divorcing your same-sex spouse, this free workshop is for you.

A GOOD DIVORCE?
What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

7:00 to 8:30 p.m.
Marin Justice Center Conference Room
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, CA 94903
RSVP by January 14 to (415) 472-1945 x 209
Pilecki@spectrumLGBTcenter.org

Download event flyer (pdf)

For LGBTQ couples, divorce can be more complex and expensive, especially when children are involved. We will provide basic information about divorce and mediation process options, legal information
pertaining specifically to same-sex couples, tips on how to deal with a contentious situation, and how to talk
to children about separation and divorce.

Coordinated by Spectrum LGBT Center in conjunction with the Marin Justice Center

SPEAKERS

Suzan Barrie Aiken, JD, Collaborative Attorney & Mediator
Debra Bellings-Kee, MFT, JD, Divorce Coach and Parenting Plan Mediator
Kris Cirby, JD, Family & Children’s Law Center
Alexandria Quam Rios, Legal Self Help Services of Marin Superior Courts
Mitchell Wunsh, Staff Attorney, Legal Aid of Marin

Thursday, December 30, 2010

The $25,000 Challenge: 72% and hours to go!

As of today at 4 PM, Spectrum has received a total of $18,393 in gifts and pledges toward our year-end goal of $25,000.  Thanks to everyone who has helped us reach our goal!

To learn more about Spectrum and the $25,000 Challenge, visit our website at http://www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org/.

Ready to make your tax-deductible gift to Spectrum? Click on the present below, which will take you to PayPal. If you wish to make your gift or pledge by phone, call (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. You may also send your check to Spectrum, 30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160, San Rafael, CA 94903. All pledges and gifts received by midnight, December 31st, will be counted toward our goal. Thank you, and Happy New Year!