The Jewish Community Relations Council presents the annual Interfaith Freedom Seder, "Freedom to Dream"
Monday, April 11, 6:30 p.m.
Osher Marin JCC, 200 N. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
with Rabbi Henry Shreibman, Reconstructionist Rabbincal College and Rev. Dr. Barbara Rowe, Westminster Presbyterian Church
Download the flyer here (pdf)
We will celebrate the festival of Passover with a delicious vegetarian dinner, a gathering of old and new friends, traditional and new music by Fred Ross-Perry, Fredi Bloom and and the Interfaith Singers and we’ll hear about dreams of citizenship, marriage equality and more.
$25 adults, $20 students, $15 children 12 & under
For reservations: 415-444-8000
Questions? Contact Suzan Berns, 415-472-5128 or sberns@jcrc.org
Sponsored by the Jewish Community Relations Council / North Bay Region, Osher Marin JCC, Jewish Community Federation/Marin Region, Gan HaLev, Jewish Congregation of the San Geronimo Valley, Marin Interfaith Council, Congregation Rodef Sholom, Congregation Kol Shofar, Jewish Family & Children’s Services
JCRC is a beneficiary of the Jewish Community Federation
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Monday, March 21, 2011
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin, 3/26
Heavenly Harp with Michelle Sell
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin
Saturday, March 26, 1-3 PM
San Geronimo Valley Community Center
6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Geronimo
Includes a light lunch
Suggested donation: $5 (free for adults 60+)
RSVP to (415) 472-1945 ext. 209
or RSVP here
Join Spectrum LGBT Center for our first West Marin Event with harpist Michelle Sell. Michelle has performed with Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Sammy Davis, Jr., Joni Mitchell, k.d. Lang, Linda Ronstadt, Diana Krall and many more. In addition to performing original music, Michelle will share stories from her career.
All are welcome; we extend a special invitation to LGBT older adults in West Marin.
Friendly atmosphere, easy parking, heavenly music and good company!
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin
Saturday, March 26, 1-3 PM
San Geronimo Valley Community Center
6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Geronimo
Includes a light lunch
Suggested donation: $5 (free for adults 60+)
RSVP to (415) 472-1945 ext. 209
or RSVP here
Join Spectrum LGBT Center for our first West Marin Event with harpist Michelle Sell. Michelle has performed with Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Sammy Davis, Jr., Joni Mitchell, k.d. Lang, Linda Ronstadt, Diana Krall and many more. In addition to performing original music, Michelle will share stories from her career.
All are welcome; we extend a special invitation to LGBT older adults in West Marin.
Friendly atmosphere, easy parking, heavenly music and good company!
Monday, March 14, 2011
“Seth’s Law” Proposed to Make a Safer School Environment for California Students
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
March 14, 2011
Assemblymember Ammiano and LGBT Equality Organizations Co-Sponsor AB 9
SACRAMENTO, Calif. - March 14 - Today, California Assemblymember Tom Ammiano will introduce a comprehensive bill that tackles school bullying by providing California schools with specific tools to prevent and address the pervasive problem in order to create a safe school environment for all students.
AB 9, also known as “Seth’s Law,” would ensure that every school in California implements updated anti-harassment and anti-discrimination policies and programs that include actual or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity and expression, as well as race, ethnicity, nationality, gender, disability, and religion. It would also empower students and parents to know what their rights are, and how to advocate for them.
"Every day in California, many students go to school fearful of another day of harassment and intimidation with no hope of a better tomorrow," said Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California, which is sponsoring the legislation. "Seth's Law will give all students the tools to seek the help they need to keep them safe and make sure that educators combat bullying in our schools."
AB 9 is named “Seth’s Law” in memory of Seth Walsh, a 13 year-old gay student from Tehachapi, California, who took his life in September 2010 after facing years of relentless anti-gay harassment at school that school officials effectively ignored.
“Seth was a wonderful, loving child, and I loved him for who he was. I can't bring my son back. But schools can make a difference today by taking bullying seriously when students and parents tell them about it. It’s time for change. We have to create a better schools for everyone,” said Wendy Walsh.
Schools often do not have the tools or knowledge to adequately protect lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students and others from bullying, which remains a serious issue across California and the rest of the nation. Students, parents, and school employees often don’t know what the rules are or what to do if bullying occurs.
"As a former teacher, I know how important it is for our students to feel safe at school. Each day throughout California, LGBT youth experience harassment. I am proud to introduce this bill in honor of Seth Walsh, which will give schools the necessary tools to prevent any young person from being bullied, harassed or worse because of their sexual orientation or gender identity and expression,” said Assemblymember Tom Ammiano.
The bill is co-sponsored by a coalition of organizations advancing LGBT equality and justice – including the ACLU’s California Affiliates, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, and Gay-Straight Alliance Network.
“Public schools have tremendous power and responsibility to protect students from bullying and harassment,” said Elizabeth Gill, Staff Attorney at the American Civil Liberties Union. “Better school procedures and policies to prevent and address bullying will make a safer environment for students who are suffering, and can even save lives.”
“Bullying can have serious and tragic consequences, particularly for students who are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender,” said Carolyn Laub, Executive Director of Gay-Straight Alliance Network. “We must take pro-active steps to ensure that California’s schools are safe for every student. Seth’s Law will help schools protect students, and prevent and respond to bullying before a tragedy occurs.”
In a recent national survey, nine out of 10 LGBT students reported being harassed at school. The problem persists in California as well, with LGBT students reporting significant harassment. The California Safe Schools Coalition reported in 2010 that 42% of California students who identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual and 62% who identify as transgender reported being harassed at least once based on gender non-conformity.
What’s more, young people often face bullying and harassment based on what their peers perceive to be their sexual orientation, regardless of whether they identify as being LGBT. According to the most recent California Healthy Kids Survey 12% of 7th graders and 10% of 9th graders reported being harassed based on their actual or perceived sexual orientation.
The consequences of bullying and harassment can include falling grades, depression, and risk of suicide. LGBT youth are three times as likely to seriously consider suicide as heterosexual youth.
"No child should fear going to school, and yet that is the daily reality for thousands of California students who face relentless harassment and bullying," said National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director Kate Kendell. "It's our responsibility to make sure schools are taking active steps to address this problem and using the tools that we know will work to create true change. It is not enough to punish students who bully. We must create a school-wide culture of inclusion and respect for difference."
Under Seth’s Law, every school district in the state would:
* Create strong and clear anti-harassment policies and programs, if they don’t have them already.
* Have a system in place to ensure that all reports of harassment are taken seriously, addressed quickly, and that parents and students understand the process of making these complaints.
* Explain the harmful impact of bullying and discrimination to students and staff.
* Provide ongoing professional development for teachers, school counselors and administrators about identifying and stopping harassment and discrimination and creating a school-wide culture of inclusion and respect for difference.
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Equality California is the largest statewide lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender rights advocacy organization in California. Over the past decade, Equality California has strategically moved California from a state with extremely limited legal protections for LGBT individuals to a state with some of the most comprehensive civil rights protections in the nation. Equality California has passed more than 70 pieces of legislation and continues to advance equality through legislative advocacy, electoral work, public education and community empowerment. http://www.eqca.org/
The American Civil Liberties Union of Northern California (ACLU-NC) is the largest affiliate of the ACLU a nationwide, nonpartisan organization with more than 550,000 members dedicated to the defense and promotion of the guarantees of individual liberty secured by state and federal Constitutions and civil rights statutes. http://www.aclunc.org/
Gay-Straight Alliance Network (GSA Network) is a national youth leadership organization that empowers youth activists to fight homophobia and transphobia in schools by training student leaders and supporting student-led Gay-Straight Alliance clubs throughout the country. In California alone, we have brought GSA clubs to 53% of public high schools, impacting more than 1.1 million students at 850 schools. GSA Network's youth advocates have played a key role in changing laws and policies that impact youth at the local and state level. GSA Network is also the founder of the Make It Better Project, which aims to stop bullying and prevent suicide. http://www.gsanetwork.org/.
The National Center for Lesbian Rights is a national legal organization committed to advancing the human and civil rights of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community through litigation, public policy advocacy, and public education. http://www.nclrrights.org/
March 14, 2011
Assemblymember Ammiano and LGBT Equality Organizations Co-Sponsor AB 9
SACRAMENTO, Calif. - March 14 - Today, California Assemblymember Tom Ammiano will introduce a comprehensive bill that tackles school bullying by providing California schools with specific tools to prevent and address the pervasive problem in order to create a safe school environment for all students.
AB 9, also known as “Seth’s Law,” would ensure that every school in California implements updated anti-harassment and anti-discrimination policies and programs that include actual or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity and expression, as well as race, ethnicity, nationality, gender, disability, and religion. It would also empower students and parents to know what their rights are, and how to advocate for them.
"Every day in California, many students go to school fearful of another day of harassment and intimidation with no hope of a better tomorrow," said Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California, which is sponsoring the legislation. "Seth's Law will give all students the tools to seek the help they need to keep them safe and make sure that educators combat bullying in our schools."
AB 9 is named “Seth’s Law” in memory of Seth Walsh, a 13 year-old gay student from Tehachapi, California, who took his life in September 2010 after facing years of relentless anti-gay harassment at school that school officials effectively ignored.
“Seth was a wonderful, loving child, and I loved him for who he was. I can't bring my son back. But schools can make a difference today by taking bullying seriously when students and parents tell them about it. It’s time for change. We have to create a better schools for everyone,” said Wendy Walsh.
Schools often do not have the tools or knowledge to adequately protect lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students and others from bullying, which remains a serious issue across California and the rest of the nation. Students, parents, and school employees often don’t know what the rules are or what to do if bullying occurs.
"As a former teacher, I know how important it is for our students to feel safe at school. Each day throughout California, LGBT youth experience harassment. I am proud to introduce this bill in honor of Seth Walsh, which will give schools the necessary tools to prevent any young person from being bullied, harassed or worse because of their sexual orientation or gender identity and expression,” said Assemblymember Tom Ammiano.
The bill is co-sponsored by a coalition of organizations advancing LGBT equality and justice – including the ACLU’s California Affiliates, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, and Gay-Straight Alliance Network.
“Public schools have tremendous power and responsibility to protect students from bullying and harassment,” said Elizabeth Gill, Staff Attorney at the American Civil Liberties Union. “Better school procedures and policies to prevent and address bullying will make a safer environment for students who are suffering, and can even save lives.”
“Bullying can have serious and tragic consequences, particularly for students who are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender,” said Carolyn Laub, Executive Director of Gay-Straight Alliance Network. “We must take pro-active steps to ensure that California’s schools are safe for every student. Seth’s Law will help schools protect students, and prevent and respond to bullying before a tragedy occurs.”
In a recent national survey, nine out of 10 LGBT students reported being harassed at school. The problem persists in California as well, with LGBT students reporting significant harassment. The California Safe Schools Coalition reported in 2010 that 42% of California students who identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual and 62% who identify as transgender reported being harassed at least once based on gender non-conformity.
What’s more, young people often face bullying and harassment based on what their peers perceive to be their sexual orientation, regardless of whether they identify as being LGBT. According to the most recent California Healthy Kids Survey 12% of 7th graders and 10% of 9th graders reported being harassed based on their actual or perceived sexual orientation.
The consequences of bullying and harassment can include falling grades, depression, and risk of suicide. LGBT youth are three times as likely to seriously consider suicide as heterosexual youth.
"No child should fear going to school, and yet that is the daily reality for thousands of California students who face relentless harassment and bullying," said National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director Kate Kendell. "It's our responsibility to make sure schools are taking active steps to address this problem and using the tools that we know will work to create true change. It is not enough to punish students who bully. We must create a school-wide culture of inclusion and respect for difference."
Under Seth’s Law, every school district in the state would:
* Create strong and clear anti-harassment policies and programs, if they don’t have them already.
* Have a system in place to ensure that all reports of harassment are taken seriously, addressed quickly, and that parents and students understand the process of making these complaints.
* Explain the harmful impact of bullying and discrimination to students and staff.
* Provide ongoing professional development for teachers, school counselors and administrators about identifying and stopping harassment and discrimination and creating a school-wide culture of inclusion and respect for difference.
.###
Equality California is the largest statewide lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender rights advocacy organization in California. Over the past decade, Equality California has strategically moved California from a state with extremely limited legal protections for LGBT individuals to a state with some of the most comprehensive civil rights protections in the nation. Equality California has passed more than 70 pieces of legislation and continues to advance equality through legislative advocacy, electoral work, public education and community empowerment. http://www.eqca.org/
The American Civil Liberties Union of Northern California (ACLU-NC) is the largest affiliate of the ACLU a nationwide, nonpartisan organization with more than 550,000 members dedicated to the defense and promotion of the guarantees of individual liberty secured by state and federal Constitutions and civil rights statutes. http://www.aclunc.org/
Gay-Straight Alliance Network (GSA Network) is a national youth leadership organization that empowers youth activists to fight homophobia and transphobia in schools by training student leaders and supporting student-led Gay-Straight Alliance clubs throughout the country. In California alone, we have brought GSA clubs to 53% of public high schools, impacting more than 1.1 million students at 850 schools. GSA Network's youth advocates have played a key role in changing laws and policies that impact youth at the local and state level. GSA Network is also the founder of the Make It Better Project, which aims to stop bullying and prevent suicide. http://www.gsanetwork.org/.
The National Center for Lesbian Rights is a national legal organization committed to advancing the human and civil rights of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community through litigation, public policy advocacy, and public education. http://www.nclrrights.org/
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Legal Changes and IRS Tax Filing Rules for Same-Sex Couples
A free workshop presented by DLK LawGroup, PC, in association with Spectrum LGBT Center
Monday, March 14, 6-8 PM
Marin Justice Center Conference Room, 30 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael
RSVP via email to rsvp@dlklawgroup.com or call us at (415) 693-0550.
Income tax laws have changed dramatically for same-sex couples who are married and/or Registered Domestic Partners and estate and gift tax laws have changed as well.
Naomi E. Metz, of DLKLawGroupPC and Karen Stogdill, tax practitioner, will be presenting a seminar on the legal changes in effect as of January 1, 2011, including what you need to understand to comply with the new tax laws and file federal tax returns.
The seminar will cover the following topics:
1) New mandatory Federal income tax filing requirements for same-sex couples
2) Community property attributes during life and at death
3) Titling of your real property and other property
4) Protecting and providing for you and your family
Monday, March 14, 6-8 PM
Marin Justice Center Conference Room, 30 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael
RSVP via email to rsvp@dlklawgroup.com or call us at (415) 693-0550.
Income tax laws have changed dramatically for same-sex couples who are married and/or Registered Domestic Partners and estate and gift tax laws have changed as well.
Naomi E. Metz, of DLKLawGroupPC and Karen Stogdill, tax practitioner, will be presenting a seminar on the legal changes in effect as of January 1, 2011, including what you need to understand to comply with the new tax laws and file federal tax returns.
The seminar will cover the following topics:
1) New mandatory Federal income tax filing requirements for same-sex couples
2) Community property attributes during life and at death
3) Titling of your real property and other property
4) Protecting and providing for you and your family
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
MIX IT UP! LGBT Business Mixer at Sabor of Spain, 2/24
Join Spectrum at our first business mixer of 2011 at Sabor of Spain in downtown San Rafael on Thursday, February 24, 5:30 - 7:30 PM.
Owner Scott Scheidt and Event Chef Jayson Valencia invite us in for a warm winter evening at Sabor of Spain Vinoteca and Alta Cucina, serving Spanish tapas and an impressive wine and beer list.
Featuring:
-Complimentary happy hour nosh, compliments of Sabor of Spain
-No-host wine and beer bar (the list for both is fabulous)
-Raffle prize drawing (bring your business card)
-No cost to attend
RSVP requested by calling (415) 472-1945 ext. 209 or click "I'm Attending" on our Facebook page.
WHY THIS MIXER? Spectrum is the North Bay's LGBT community center.
We know local businesses want to connect with the LGBT community. We also know that LGBT consumers show a very high loyalty rate to businesses that support the LGBT community.
Our goal with this event is to introduce LGBT and LGBT-friendly businesses to LGBT people who have an interest in their services. This event is not only for B2B connections; it's for the LGBT community who live and work in Marin and beyond.
Introducing our first co-sponsors of 2011:
Sabor of Spain Vinoteca and Alta Cucina Sabor's Facebook Page
Monty White Law LLP - a new Rafael-based law practice
Betty's List - Thanks to Betty for organizing her new North Bay Smart Women Business Mixers around our mixer!
Want to co-sponsor this event or donate a raffle prize (min value $25)? Call Paula at (415) 472-1945 ext. 209.
See you soon!
Owner Scott Scheidt and Event Chef Jayson Valencia invite us in for a warm winter evening at Sabor of Spain Vinoteca and Alta Cucina, serving Spanish tapas and an impressive wine and beer list.
Featuring:
-Complimentary happy hour nosh, compliments of Sabor of Spain
-No-host wine and beer bar (the list for both is fabulous)
-Raffle prize drawing (bring your business card)
-No cost to attend
RSVP requested by calling (415) 472-1945 ext. 209 or click "I'm Attending" on our Facebook page.
WHY THIS MIXER? Spectrum is the North Bay's LGBT community center.
We know local businesses want to connect with the LGBT community. We also know that LGBT consumers show a very high loyalty rate to businesses that support the LGBT community.
Our goal with this event is to introduce LGBT and LGBT-friendly businesses to LGBT people who have an interest in their services. This event is not only for B2B connections; it's for the LGBT community who live and work in Marin and beyond.
Introducing our first co-sponsors of 2011:
Sabor of Spain Vinoteca and Alta Cucina Sabor's Facebook Page
Monty White Law LLP - a new Rafael-based law practice
Betty's List - Thanks to Betty for organizing her new North Bay Smart Women Business Mixers around our mixer!
Want to co-sponsor this event or donate a raffle prize (min value $25)? Call Paula at (415) 472-1945 ext. 209.
See you soon!
Monday, January 24, 2011
The $25,000 Challenge: WE DID IT!
Thanks to your generous support, we raised $26,168 during our year-end giving challenge. With your help, we surpassed the $25k goal. Thank you!
On December 10th, Spectrum supporters Russ Zink and Sean Callaway issued a challenge to our community. They set a goal of raising $25,000 in year-end gifts for Spectrum, and donated the first $2,500 toward that goal. By December 31st, we were still $3,400 away from our goal, so we extended the deadline into January. Today -- just six weeks after Sean and Russ issued the challenge -- we surpassed our goal by over $1,000.
Thanks to the magic of social media and email, we didn't spend a dime on printing or postage. That means more money will go toward supporting our Youth Advocacy Project, which is promoting safer schools for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning middle and high school youth.
Thanks to Russ, Sean, and those of you who followed their lead in making a contribution to Spectrum. We couldn't do our work without you!
On December 10th, Spectrum supporters Russ Zink and Sean Callaway issued a challenge to our community. They set a goal of raising $25,000 in year-end gifts for Spectrum, and donated the first $2,500 toward that goal. By December 31st, we were still $3,400 away from our goal, so we extended the deadline into January. Today -- just six weeks after Sean and Russ issued the challenge -- we surpassed our goal by over $1,000.
Thanks to the magic of social media and email, we didn't spend a dime on printing or postage. That means more money will go toward supporting our Youth Advocacy Project, which is promoting safer schools for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning middle and high school youth.
Thanks to Russ, Sean, and those of you who followed their lead in making a contribution to Spectrum. We couldn't do our work without you!
Monday, January 3, 2011
The $25,000 Challenge: Deadline Extended to January 15th, 2011
Happy New Year, everyone! If you've been following our $25,000 Year End Challenge, you know that we have just $3,400 left to raise in order to meet our goal. Thanks to Sean Callaway and Russell Zink, who called for the challenge and contributed the first $2,500 toward our goal.
Knowing that many people were away for the holidays, we are extending our deadline through January 15th, 2011. Gifts and pledges of all sizes are welcome.
You can make a donation online or by phone at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. Or, you can donate online now.
Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you in 2011!
Warmly,
Paula Pilecki, Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
Visit our website
Knowing that many people were away for the holidays, we are extending our deadline through January 15th, 2011. Gifts and pledges of all sizes are welcome.
You can make a donation online or by phone at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. Or, you can donate online now.
Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you in 2011!
Warmly,
Paula Pilecki, Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
Visit our website
Life After Loss: Grief Group Forming for LGBT Older Adults
Life After Loss: A Grief Group for LGBT Older Adults
Begins Friday, January 14th
1:00 – 2:30 PM
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160, San Rafael, CA 94903
Facilitated by Erin Gray, Marriage and Family Therapist intern
(Sup. Nancy Gump, MFT # 25530)
To participate, call (415) 491-5700, x 2037
There is no charge to attend.
Download the flyer (pdf)
When we love and lose someone, we are overwhelmed by pain and sorrow. For lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people, mourning the loss of a partner can encompass an additional burden if there is little or no family, or support from the community.
Perhaps you felt that some didn’t approve of your relationship. Maybe you even kept it a secret. For these reasons, it may be difficult for you to trust traditional sources of support, and could benefit from being with others who had a common experience in life.
Spectrum’s Grief Group is for older adults 60 years of age and older who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, and who are grieving the loss of a significant other. The loss may be recent, or it may have been long ago.
The group will run for eight weeks beginning January 14th. Participants will be asked to commit to attending all eight sessions.
We hope you'll join us for this confidential group. If you have questions, call Erin Grey, MFTI at
(415) 491-5700, x 2037.
Begins Friday, January 14th
1:00 – 2:30 PM
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160, San Rafael, CA 94903
Facilitated by Erin Gray, Marriage and Family Therapist intern
(Sup. Nancy Gump, MFT # 25530)
To participate, call (415) 491-5700, x 2037
There is no charge to attend.
Download the flyer (pdf)
When we love and lose someone, we are overwhelmed by pain and sorrow. For lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people, mourning the loss of a partner can encompass an additional burden if there is little or no family, or support from the community.
Perhaps you felt that some didn’t approve of your relationship. Maybe you even kept it a secret. For these reasons, it may be difficult for you to trust traditional sources of support, and could benefit from being with others who had a common experience in life.
Spectrum’s Grief Group is for older adults 60 years of age and older who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, and who are grieving the loss of a significant other. The loss may be recent, or it may have been long ago.
The group will run for eight weeks beginning January 14th. Participants will be asked to commit to attending all eight sessions.
We hope you'll join us for this confidential group. If you have questions, call Erin Grey, MFTI at
(415) 491-5700, x 2037.
A Good Divorce? What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know
If you are embarking on the difficult journey of separating from your domestic partner, or divorcing your same-sex spouse, this free workshop is for you.
A GOOD DIVORCE?
What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
7:00 to 8:30 p.m.
Marin Justice Center Conference Room
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, CA 94903
RSVP by January 14 to (415) 472-1945 x 209
Pilecki@spectrumLGBTcenter.org
Download event flyer (pdf)
For LGBTQ couples, divorce can be more complex and expensive, especially when children are involved. We will provide basic information about divorce and mediation process options, legal information
pertaining specifically to same-sex couples, tips on how to deal with a contentious situation, and how to talk
to children about separation and divorce.
Coordinated by Spectrum LGBT Center in conjunction with the Marin Justice Center
SPEAKERS
Suzan Barrie Aiken, JD, Collaborative Attorney & Mediator
Debra Bellings-Kee, MFT, JD, Divorce Coach and Parenting Plan Mediator
Kris Cirby, JD, Family & Children’s Law Center
Alexandria Quam Rios, Legal Self Help Services of Marin Superior Courts
Mitchell Wunsh, Staff Attorney, Legal Aid of Marin
A GOOD DIVORCE?
What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
7:00 to 8:30 p.m.
Marin Justice Center Conference Room
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, CA 94903
RSVP by January 14 to (415) 472-1945 x 209
Pilecki@spectrumLGBTcenter.org
Download event flyer (pdf)
For LGBTQ couples, divorce can be more complex and expensive, especially when children are involved. We will provide basic information about divorce and mediation process options, legal information
pertaining specifically to same-sex couples, tips on how to deal with a contentious situation, and how to talk
to children about separation and divorce.
Coordinated by Spectrum LGBT Center in conjunction with the Marin Justice Center
SPEAKERS
Suzan Barrie Aiken, JD, Collaborative Attorney & Mediator
Debra Bellings-Kee, MFT, JD, Divorce Coach and Parenting Plan Mediator
Kris Cirby, JD, Family & Children’s Law Center
Alexandria Quam Rios, Legal Self Help Services of Marin Superior Courts
Mitchell Wunsh, Staff Attorney, Legal Aid of Marin
Thursday, December 30, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 72% and hours to go!
As of today at 4 PM, Spectrum has received a total of $18,393 in gifts and pledges toward our year-end goal of $25,000. Thanks to everyone who has helped us reach our goal!
To learn more about Spectrum and the $25,000 Challenge, visit our website at http://www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org/.
Ready to make your tax-deductible gift to Spectrum? Click on the present below, which will take you to PayPal. If you wish to make your gift or pledge by phone, call (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. You may also send your check to Spectrum, 30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160, San Rafael, CA 94903. All pledges and gifts received by midnight, December 31st, will be counted toward our goal. Thank you, and Happy New Year!
To learn more about Spectrum and the $25,000 Challenge, visit our website at http://www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org/.
Ready to make your tax-deductible gift to Spectrum? Click on the present below, which will take you to PayPal. If you wish to make your gift or pledge by phone, call (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. You may also send your check to Spectrum, 30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160, San Rafael, CA 94903. All pledges and gifts received by midnight, December 31st, will be counted toward our goal. Thank you, and Happy New Year!
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 64% and three days to go!
Thank you! Your support will help us ring in 2011 with our new Youth Advocacy Project, which will empower LGBT youth and their allies to create safer schools and communities throughout the North Bay.
Also in store for 2011: a variety of new and continuing support, services, and activities for the LGBT community, including:
Thank you for standing with us. Happy New Year!
Also in store for 2011: a variety of new and continuing support, services, and activities for the LGBT community, including:
- Intergenerational storytelling
- Grief and loss support
- Individual and family counseling
- Support for parents of LGBT youth
- Lunchtime gatherings for LGBT older adults
- Inservice training for health and social service providers
- Celebrations for LGBT people and allies
Thank you for standing with us. Happy New Year!
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
New Year's Eve Comedy Celebration with Kevin Meaney
The Other Cafe Comedy Showcase's New Year's Eve Comedy Celebration
starring KEVIN MEANEY
Fun, Laughter, Easy & Relaxed - in beautiful Marin!
December 31st - 8:30 PM
Spectrum's friends at Osher Marin JCC want you to know about this special evening right here in Marin.
The Other Café Comedy Showcase Presents:
A Stand Up Comedy New Year's EVE Celebration In Marin
Say goodbye to an easy year to forget… with a spectacular comedy night to remember!
With a rare west coast appearance from comedian & star of Broadway's Hairspray and countless appearances on Jay Leno
KEVIN MEANEY!
Special guests include:
Famed comedian/juggler Michael Davis & SF Favorite Geoff Bolt and MC/host Robert Strong
Fri. Dec. 31 @ 8:30
Includes After Party & Countdown with the stars 11:15 – 12:30
NEW YEARS EVE MADE EASY
Come for the comedy~8:30
Stay for the after party~11:15 – 12:30 included with your tix
Countdown-champagne toast-desserts-fun-friends
Ample FREE parking on site and at street make this THE stress free, fun, and fabulous way to ring in 2011 with laughter and friends in beautiful Marin.
So forget the two drink minimum, bridge toll, parking fees and traffic and party with national talent right here in Marin.
DISCOUNTED TICKETS are available TO MEMBERS OF THE Other Café email list
Sign up for the discount code and get more NYE line up info at http://www.theothercafe.com/
VIP tix include champagne & reserved premier table seating
Buy Tix HERE: www.marinjcc.org
Presented in association with the Osher Marin JCC
200 N. San Pedro Rd. San Rafael
Marinjcc.org ~ 415.444.8081
starring KEVIN MEANEY
Fun, Laughter, Easy & Relaxed - in beautiful Marin!
December 31st - 8:30 PM
The Other Café Comedy Showcase Presents:
A Stand Up Comedy New Year's EVE Celebration In Marin
Say goodbye to an easy year to forget… with a spectacular comedy night to remember!
With a rare west coast appearance from comedian & star of Broadway's Hairspray and countless appearances on Jay Leno
KEVIN MEANEY!
Special guests include:
Famed comedian/juggler Michael Davis & SF Favorite Geoff Bolt and MC/host Robert Strong
Fri. Dec. 31 @ 8:30
Includes After Party & Countdown with the stars 11:15 – 12:30
NEW YEARS EVE MADE EASY
Come for the comedy~8:30
Stay for the after party~11:15 – 12:30 included with your tix
Countdown-champagne toast-desserts-fun-friends
Ample FREE parking on site and at street make this THE stress free, fun, and fabulous way to ring in 2011 with laughter and friends in beautiful Marin.
So forget the two drink minimum, bridge toll, parking fees and traffic and party with national talent right here in Marin.
DISCOUNTED TICKETS are available TO MEMBERS OF THE Other Café email list
Sign up for the discount code and get more NYE line up info at http://www.theothercafe.com/
VIP tix include champagne & reserved premier table seating
Buy Tix HERE: www.marinjcc.org
Presented in association with the Osher Marin JCC
200 N. San Pedro Rd. San Rafael
Marinjcc.org ~ 415.444.8081
Monday, December 27, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 60% and counting!
With just four days left of Spectrum's year-end fundraising challenge, we've raised $15,600 toward our goal of $25,000.
Did you know that 30% of all gifts to charity are given during the last 48 hours of the year? It's not too late to make a tax-deductible gift, and we thank you for considering Spectrum as one of the organizations you support this year.
Stay tuned, and thank you for supporting our work.
Read more about the $25,000 year-end challenge here.
Did you know that 30% of all gifts to charity are given during the last 48 hours of the year? It's not too late to make a tax-deductible gift, and we thank you for considering Spectrum as one of the organizations you support this year.
Stay tuned, and thank you for supporting our work.
Read more about the $25,000 year-end challenge here.
Friday, December 24, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 56% and counting!
Thanks to the generous donation of new and old friends, we've raised $14,300 toward our goal of $25,000 by December 31st.
To those who celebrate the holiday, Merry Christmas! We'll be back online next Monday, December 27th.
Learn more about the $25,000 Challenge here.
To those who celebrate the holiday, Merry Christmas! We'll be back online next Monday, December 27th.
Learn more about the $25,000 Challenge here.
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 52% raised with 11 days to go!
We've raised a total of $13,428 in new gifts and pledges toward our $25,000 year-end goal. Thanks to all who have given! Every gift counts -- no matter how small.
Learn more about Spectrum's $25,000 Year-End Challenge here.
Thank you, one and all, for moving us closer to our year-end goal!
Learn more about Spectrum's $25,000 Year-End Challenge here.
Thank you, one and all, for moving us closer to our year-end goal!
Monday, December 20, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 40% raised with 12 days to go!
The $25,000 Challenge: We broke the $10k mark. $15,000 more to raise, 12 days to go. Click on the box to make your gift today, and thank you!
Sunday, December 19, 2010
The $25,000 Challenge: 36% and Counting
We've raised nearly $9,000 of our $25,000 year-end goal! Thank you to those who have given -- we couldn't do it without you.
You can be sure of this: after twenty-eight years, Spectrum continues to be your voice for justice on behalf of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people in the North Bay.
You may ask yourself: Is our work still needed, after all these years? Hasn’t the world changed? Haven’t things improved?
The answer is, yes. LGBT people have made tremendous gains toward full equality, and with the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, we've made one giant leap forward.
But you and I both know that our work is not finished.
Many people are still afraid to be out at work. Marriage equality is not entirely won, and legally married same-sex couples do not receive the federal benefits that heterosexual couples get - including those who serve in the military. Each day at school, students of all ages hear anti-gay comments. And, tragically, LGBT youth sometimes take their own lives because they just can’t take it anymore.
Your investment in Spectrum’s work ensures:
• Safety, compassion, and advocacy on behalf of LGBT youth
• Friendship, care, and support for LGBT older adults
• Visibility of LGBT people and families in the community
• Leadership in promoting safer schools and workplaces
• Advocacy on laws and policies that protect LGBT people
With your support, we will continue to make it better, right here at home. Thank you for standing with us.
Read more about the $25,000 Year-End Challenge here.
You can be sure of this: after twenty-eight years, Spectrum continues to be your voice for justice on behalf of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people in the North Bay.
You may ask yourself: Is our work still needed, after all these years? Hasn’t the world changed? Haven’t things improved?
The answer is, yes. LGBT people have made tremendous gains toward full equality, and with the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, we've made one giant leap forward.
But you and I both know that our work is not finished.
Many people are still afraid to be out at work. Marriage equality is not entirely won, and legally married same-sex couples do not receive the federal benefits that heterosexual couples get - including those who serve in the military. Each day at school, students of all ages hear anti-gay comments. And, tragically, LGBT youth sometimes take their own lives because they just can’t take it anymore.
Your investment in Spectrum’s work ensures:
• Safety, compassion, and advocacy on behalf of LGBT youth
• Friendship, care, and support for LGBT older adults
• Visibility of LGBT people and families in the community
• Leadership in promoting safer schools and workplaces
• Advocacy on laws and policies that protect LGBT people
With your support, we will continue to make it better, right here at home. Thank you for standing with us.
Read more about the $25,000 Year-End Challenge here.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
A $25,000 Year-End Challenge
A $25,000 Year-End Challenge
Dear Friends,
Spectrum's work is all about standing as a beacon of light for the LGBT community in the North Bay, especially for young people who turn to Spectrum for support and guidance, and to seniors who are charting new ground for living life fully.
As 2010 comes to a close, Spectrum supporters Russell Zink and Sean Callaway want to do something special to support our work. So, we've set a goal of raising $25,000 for Spectrum by December 31st. Russ and Sean have pledged a special year-end gift of $2,500 toward this goal.
If you prefer to make a pledge or credit card contribution to Spectrum by phone, call 415-472-1945, ext. 209. Credit and debit cards, monthly pledge payments, and one-time gifts are accepted.
To send a check:
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, California 94903
Because Spectrum is a non-profit organization, your gift is tax-deductible. Please consult with your tax accountant to find out what type of charitable contribution would best serve your needs.
Spectrum's Federal Tax Identification number is 94-2840016.
Thank you, and Happy Holidays!
Dear Friends,
Spectrum's work is all about standing as a beacon of light for the LGBT community in the North Bay, especially for young people who turn to Spectrum for support and guidance, and to seniors who are charting new ground for living life fully.
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| Russ Zink and Sean Callaway |
Russ and Sean are inviting you to help them meet this goal any way you can. Your gift will go directly toward promoting acceptance, understanding, and full inclusion for LGBT people of all ages in the North Bay.
Help us raise $25,000 by December 31st to support Spectrum's new Youth Advocacy Project. We'll be advocating for safe schools and legislation such as the FAIR Education Act, which ensures that LGBT people are fairly and accurately included in instructional materials.
Help us raise $25,000 by December 31st to support Spectrum's new Youth Advocacy Project. We'll be advocating for safe schools and legislation such as the FAIR Education Act, which ensures that LGBT people are fairly and accurately included in instructional materials.
(you don't need an account to do so)
If you prefer to make a pledge or credit card contribution to Spectrum by phone, call 415-472-1945, ext. 209. Credit and debit cards, monthly pledge payments, and one-time gifts are accepted.
To send a check:
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, California 94903
Because Spectrum is a non-profit organization, your gift is tax-deductible. Please consult with your tax accountant to find out what type of charitable contribution would best serve your needs.
Spectrum's Federal Tax Identification number is 94-2840016.
Thank you, and Happy Holidays!
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Support group for LGBTQ Youth, December 8th
The next meeting of Spectrum's support group for LGBT and questioning youth ages 14-25 will be on Wednesday, December 8th, 5:00 - 6:30 PM at Spectrum. This is a drop-in group for youth who are just coming out, or have questions about their sexual orientation or gender identity. Facilitated by Cristin Brew, MFT, the group provides a safe and supportive environment. For more information and directions to Spectrum, call Cristin Brew at (415) 472-1945, ext. 203.
Friday, December 3, 2010
This season, shop Spectrum's Amazon stores!
'Tis the season to shop, and Spectrum has three ways for you to round out your holiday giving!
First, bookmark this page! When you click through to Amazon using the banner you see here, Spectrum will earn a percentage from the sale. It's an easy way to support your favorite LGBT Center!
Second, visit our book store, which carries hundreds of LGBT-themed books that have been donated to us over the past 28 years. There are some real finds here and most of our books are in near-perfect condition. And, after shipping costs, Spectrum keeps 100% of the profit on each book sale, which will benefit our programs and services.
Finally, shop the Spectrum aStore, which contains jewelry, clothing, housewares, dvds, cds and other gift items we've selected especially for our site.
All of our online shopping portals are maintained by our Intergenerational Volunteer Task Team. Thanks to Frances and Jourdan for your fine work on our sites.
Happy holidays, and happy shopping! Thanks for supporting Spectrum.
First, bookmark this page! When you click through to Amazon using the banner you see here, Spectrum will earn a percentage from the sale. It's an easy way to support your favorite LGBT Center!
Second, visit our book store, which carries hundreds of LGBT-themed books that have been donated to us over the past 28 years. There are some real finds here and most of our books are in near-perfect condition. And, after shipping costs, Spectrum keeps 100% of the profit on each book sale, which will benefit our programs and services.
Finally, shop the Spectrum aStore, which contains jewelry, clothing, housewares, dvds, cds and other gift items we've selected especially for our site.
All of our online shopping portals are maintained by our Intergenerational Volunteer Task Team. Thanks to Frances and Jourdan for your fine work on our sites.
Happy holidays, and happy shopping! Thanks for supporting Spectrum.
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