Saturday, February 11
Max's Café of Corte Madera
60 Madera Blvd.
Facebook Event Page
6:00 - 7:30 PM Dinner
3-course prix fixe meal with glass of wine = $19.99, full menu also available
7:30 - 11:00 PM
V-Dancing with DJ Rosie = $20
Cupids Inka and Katharine will have icebreakers for singles & singles tables for dinner
Everyone welcome - couples and singles - all genders and identities!
Produced by Katharine Holland and Inka Von
A portion of net proceeds will be donated to Spectrum LGBT Center
RSVP, song requests and to buy advance tickets:
415-378-2697 or email marindance2012@gmail.com
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Monday, January 23, 2012
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
GEN SILENT SCREENING AT VINTAGE HOUSE, SONOMA
The insightful documentary, GEN SILENT, will be screened on Friday, December 2nd, 6:30 pm at Vintage House, 264 First Street East, Sonoma.
GEN SILENT is a powerful documentary that shines a light on the difficulties faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people as they grow older.
The fact of the matter is, many LGBT people who fought the first battles for equality are now facing the fear of being bullied, physically abused, and discriminated against by a system of care that is ill-prepared to accept them. In the face of this, LGBT older adults are hiding, living alone, and isolated from their community.
GEN SILENT is both a sad and joyful tribute to survival, and an eye-opening film.
Suggested donation: $5 at the door, though all are welcome and no one will be turned away. Following the film, there will be a facilitated discussion with the audience.
Sponsored by Vintage House, Sonoma Homecare, and Spectrum LGBT Center
For more information, call Gary Shepard at 707-583-2330 (24 hour voice message that is checked regularly).
GEN SILENT is a powerful documentary that shines a light on the difficulties faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people as they grow older.
The fact of the matter is, many LGBT people who fought the first battles for equality are now facing the fear of being bullied, physically abused, and discriminated against by a system of care that is ill-prepared to accept them. In the face of this, LGBT older adults are hiding, living alone, and isolated from their community.
GEN SILENT is both a sad and joyful tribute to survival, and an eye-opening film.
Suggested donation: $5 at the door, though all are welcome and no one will be turned away. Following the film, there will be a facilitated discussion with the audience.
Sponsored by Vintage House, Sonoma Homecare, and Spectrum LGBT Center
For more information, call Gary Shepard at 707-583-2330 (24 hour voice message that is checked regularly).
Are you 55 years of age or older? Read this.
ATTENTION MARIN RESIDENTS: If you are 55 years or older, OR an adult family member, neighbor, or friend who provides unpaid help to an older adult or someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia, this survey is for you. For the first time, the survey provides an opportunity for LGBT people to be counted. Let's make sure our voices are included in this survey!
ONLINE SURVEY HERE.
If you can't take the survey online, send an email and we'll send you a paper version. Thanks!
ONLINE SURVEY HERE.
If you can't take the survey online, send an email and we'll send you a paper version. Thanks!
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
White House Inaugurates LGBT Update
(Reposted from an email received today)
Good morning,
Welcome to the inaugural edition of the White House LGBT Update, where you'll hear from the White House Office of Public Engagement on President Obama’s continued commitment to progress for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community.
We need your help to get the word out! Please encourage your friends and family to sign up for updates and don’t hesitate to drop us a line with your comments, suggestions, and ideas.
All the best,
Gautam Raghavan
Office of Public Engagement
The White House
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Napa LGBTQ Community Forum, October 11th
Napa LGBTQ Community Forum
Tuesday evening, October 11, 2011, 6:30 - 8:30 PM
McPherson Elem. School’s Multiuse Room
2670 Yajome Street, Napa
RSVP HERE
We need your voice! For the first time ever, LGBTQ people (and straight allies) from across ages, races, identities and the length of the Napa Valley will gather together for an important conversation and sharing of our experiences of living as LGBTQ in the Napa Valley--that will ultimately guide the direction of our work in support of our Valley's LGBTQ people. Have thoughts or ideas on what Napa is doing well or could to improve the safety and well being for LGBTQ people? Who will make sure your voice is included if not you?
Bringing together lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning people & straight allies:
Across ages, races & identities, from all nooks & crannies of the Napa Valley
...to answer the question, How do we create a healthier Napa Valley that is more inclusive, welcoming & safer for all of us?
For more info, please contact Ian Stanley, Program Director: 707-251-9432 or ian.voices@gmail.com
To learn more about the Napa County LGBTQ PEI Project, visit our website.
Safe Space & Hate Free Zone: Please attend even if you’re not “out”. All our voices are needed!
Co-sponsored by On The Move and Spectrum LGBT Center of the North Bay with funding from the Napa County Mental Health Division's Mental Health Services Act (MHSA) Prevention and Early Intervention (PEI) Component.
Tuesday evening, October 11, 2011, 6:30 - 8:30 PM
McPherson Elem. School’s Multiuse Room
2670 Yajome Street, Napa
RSVP HERE
We need your voice! For the first time ever, LGBTQ people (and straight allies) from across ages, races, identities and the length of the Napa Valley will gather together for an important conversation and sharing of our experiences of living as LGBTQ in the Napa Valley--that will ultimately guide the direction of our work in support of our Valley's LGBTQ people. Have thoughts or ideas on what Napa is doing well or could to improve the safety and well being for LGBTQ people? Who will make sure your voice is included if not you?
Bringing together lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning people & straight allies:
Across ages, races & identities, from all nooks & crannies of the Napa Valley
...to answer the question, How do we create a healthier Napa Valley that is more inclusive, welcoming & safer for all of us?
For more info, please contact Ian Stanley, Program Director: 707-251-9432 or ian.voices@gmail.com
To learn more about the Napa County LGBTQ PEI Project, visit our website.
Safe Space & Hate Free Zone: Please attend even if you’re not “out”. All our voices are needed!
Co-sponsored by On The Move and Spectrum LGBT Center of the North Bay with funding from the Napa County Mental Health Division's Mental Health Services Act (MHSA) Prevention and Early Intervention (PEI) Component.
Monday, September 19, 2011
LGBT Meet-Up at Max's Every Sunday, 6-9 PM
The staff at Max's of Corte Madera is warmly reaching out to LGBT people and our community of friends with a weekly "happy hour".
They have a lovely cocktail lounge which is separate from their main dining room. It will be a great venue to listen to the David's ensemble, The Rainbows and Rockets Band, shmooze with locals and enjoy Max's delicious deli foods and drinks.
Max’s Deli Presents:
Meet Me @ Max’s!
60 Madera Blvd., Corte Madera, right off the 101.
Welcoming the LGBT community and friends
Every Sunday 6-9pm
Live music by The Rainbows & Rockets Band
Max’s will contribute 5% of sales to Marin AIDS Project & Spectrum LGBT Center.
See you there!
They have a lovely cocktail lounge which is separate from their main dining room. It will be a great venue to listen to the David's ensemble, The Rainbows and Rockets Band, shmooze with locals and enjoy Max's delicious deli foods and drinks.
Max’s Deli Presents:
Meet Me @ Max’s!
60 Madera Blvd., Corte Madera, right off the 101.
Welcoming the LGBT community and friends
Every Sunday 6-9pm
Live music by The Rainbows & Rockets Band
Max’s will contribute 5% of sales to Marin AIDS Project & Spectrum LGBT Center.
See you there!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
"History Should Be Honest" - The FAIR Act
On July 13, 2011, Governor Jerry Brown signed the FAIR (Fair, Accurate, Inclusive and Respectful) Education Act, authored by our state senator, Mark Leno. The law provides that the historical contributions of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people and disabled individuals be accurately and fairly portrayed in public school instructional materials. LGBT and disabled people are being added to an existing list of underrepresented cultural and ethnic groups that California already requires to be recognized in instructional materials, including Native Americans, Mexican Americans, African Americans and Asian Americans. In his signing statement, Governor Brown said, “History should be honest.”
In 1966, California conservatives were outraged when our state board of education adopted a new junior high school textbook. They claimed that the book’s inclusion of a discussion of the civil rights movement and an expanded section on important African Americans would indoctrinate students undermine religious values, and politicize the curriculum. Now, of course, it is commonplace and non-controversial in California for schools to recognize the contributions of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and other African Americans and to celebrate Black History Month.
Sadly, on July 15, 2011, the Capitol Resource Institute (CRI), a Sacramento-based right-wing organization that has long opposed gay rights, announced its intention to start a voter referendum to repeal the bill. Whether or not CRI can garner the 500,000 signatures required for the ballot remains to be seen. But the institute is acting within a dangerous tradition that seeks to promote to schoolchildren a vision of America that is both inaccurate and harmful.
The arguments for excluding LGBT history simply do not withstand scrutiny. The Traditional Values Coalition stated that the FAIR Act will be a “pro homosexual promotion tool” and be used to “indoctrinate children.” Teaching history, of course, is not indoctrination. How does studying the life and accomplishments of San Francisco politician Harvey Milk constitute indoctrination? How would learning that Aaron Copland, composer of such American classics as “Appalachian Spring” and “Rodeo” is gay, indoctrinate students? There is no reason for students not to learn about the Proposition 8 case, which addresses the constitutionality of prohibiting gay marriage and is currently on appeal in the 9th Circuit.
In contrast to the unpersuasive arguments against the FAIR Act, there are compelling reasons to support it. Inclusive history lessons may lead to safer outcomes for students. Our state and country has tragically seen an upsurge in the number of bullied LGBT teens who have committed suicide. Hopefully, a complete teaching of history can help these students feel a greater part of their schools and communities. Shannon Minter, legal director at the National Center for Lesbian Rights, stated that the FAIR Act “is about breaking a very damaging cycle of silence and stigma… for the first time, we will have a generation of LGBT youth who are growing up seeing themselves reflected and included in public institutions.”
Opposition to acknowledging LGBT rights in instructional materials rarely stands alone as an issue; it is usually linked to an extreme right wing agenda. Texas exemplifies this. In 2010, Texas adopted the following social studies standards: Jefferson Davis (president of the Confederacy) deserves equal billing as President Abraham Lincoln; the National Rifle Association deserves praise for upholding the U.S. Constitution (no discussion of a contrary view of the Second Amendment), all references to President Obama should include his middle name, Hussein. The guidelines took out references to Thurgood Marshall (the first African American U.S. Supreme Court Justice) and Cesar Chavez (Hispanic farm worker and community leader) - this in a state where the majority of students are of color. The guidelines were primarily written by a dentist, and derided by conservative and liberal historians alike. Texas guidelines for health are also historically inaccurate - Texas is required to teach that marriage is only between a man and a woman; this in a country where six states and Washington, D.C. recognize marriage equality.
Californians should be proud that we are the first in the nation to specifically include the contributions of LGBT people in public school materials. We were also one of the first states, in 1948, to recognize that people of different races had the right to marry one another. The U.S. Supreme Court did not reach this conclusion until 1967; today, one in fifteen married people in this country is married to someone of a different race. Someday, hopefully soon, the inclusion of LGBT history will be the standard everywhere and seen for what it is - acknowledging ALL the people that contribute to our great nation, gay and straight.
Ruth Dell (pictured) is a retired attorney who volunteers for Spectrum and other nonprofit organizations.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
LA MISSION - THE MOVIE at Pickleweed Community Center, 6/8
Spectrum LGBT Center, in partnership with Canal Alliance, invites you to the first movie of the Seen Through Film Series: LA MISSION
Wednesday, June 8, 6:00 - 8:00 PM
Pickleweed Community Center
50 Canal Street, San Rafael, CA
FREE EVENT - Food will be provided
DOWNLOAD SPANISH/ENGLISH FLYERS HERE (pdf)
Growing up in the Mission district, Che Rivera has always had to be tough to survive. He’s a powerful man respected throughout the Mission barrio for his masculinity and his strength, as well as for his hobby building beautiful lowrider cars. A reformed inmate and recovering alcoholic, Che has worked hard to redeem his life and do right by his pride and joy: his only son, Jes, whom he has raised on his own after the death of his wife. Che’s path to redemption is tested, however, when he discovers Jes is gay.
To survive his neighborhood, Che has always lived with his fists. To survive as a complete man, he’ll have to embrace a side of himself he’s never shown. Rated R. Starring Benjamin Bratt.
Film Presentation Supporters: Adopt A Family, Asian Advocacy Project, Big Brothers Big Sisters of the North Bay, Brazilian Alliance, Marin Child Care Council, Parent Voices/Parent Services Project
Media Sponsors: Univision Channel 14, Community Media Center of Marin, Nuestras Voces, Avance News, La Voz Bilingual Newspaper
Food Sponsor: Claudia Cardoza, LUSO-American Life Insurance
SEEN THROUGH FILM is a project of Spectrum LGBT Center. It explores the lives of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender people. The series includes films that will educate, provoke conversation, entertain and appeal to a diverse population.
SEEN THROUGH FILM is funded by a grant from the Marin Community Foundation.
Wednesday, June 8, 6:00 - 8:00 PM
Pickleweed Community Center
50 Canal Street, San Rafael, CA
FREE EVENT - Food will be provided
DOWNLOAD SPANISH/ENGLISH FLYERS HERE (pdf)
To survive his neighborhood, Che has always lived with his fists. To survive as a complete man, he’ll have to embrace a side of himself he’s never shown. Rated R. Starring Benjamin Bratt.
Film Presentation Supporters: Adopt A Family, Asian Advocacy Project, Big Brothers Big Sisters of the North Bay, Brazilian Alliance, Marin Child Care Council, Parent Voices/Parent Services Project
Media Sponsors: Univision Channel 14, Community Media Center of Marin, Nuestras Voces, Avance News, La Voz Bilingual Newspaper
Food Sponsor: Claudia Cardoza, LUSO-American Life Insurance
SEEN THROUGH FILM is a project of Spectrum LGBT Center. It explores the lives of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender people. The series includes films that will educate, provoke conversation, entertain and appeal to a diverse population.
SEEN THROUGH FILM is funded by a grant from the Marin Community Foundation.
Sonoma County Gatherings for LGBT Older Aduts
Join Spectrum for lively discussions, mutual support, sharing information, and all the while celebrating who we are.
Spectrum's social support groups for LGBT older adults have been meeting in Sonoma for nearly three years. Everyone is welcome; there is no charge. Whether you're in the closet or out, you are welcome!
The Santa Rosa Group: Meets on the 4th Tuesday of the month, 1:30 PM - 3:00 PM, at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation (Glaser Center), Santa Rosa.
The Sonoma Valley Group: Meets on the 3rd Friday of the month, 10:30 am - 12 noon, at Vintage House Senior Center, Sonoma.
For more information, call Gary Shepard, Spectrum's Sonoma Project Coordinator, at 707-583-2330 (message line, checked frequently).
Spectrum's social support groups for LGBT older adults have been meeting in Sonoma for nearly three years. Everyone is welcome; there is no charge. Whether you're in the closet or out, you are welcome!
The Santa Rosa Group: Meets on the 4th Tuesday of the month, 1:30 PM - 3:00 PM, at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation (Glaser Center), Santa Rosa.
The Sonoma Valley Group: Meets on the 3rd Friday of the month, 10:30 am - 12 noon, at Vintage House Senior Center, Sonoma.
For more information, call Gary Shepard, Spectrum's Sonoma Project Coordinator, at 707-583-2330 (message line, checked frequently).
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
A Gleeful Kate Clinton Slated to Perform at Spectrum Benefit
Kate Clinton is coming to San Rafael and bringing her Glee Party with her.
In a tour that she describes as "part glee and part tea" she looks at the expectation in society that all problems can be solved in one hour minus commercial breaks with a few song and dance numbers thrown in. Her performance at the Hoytt Theater will benefit Spectrum's advocacy programs for LGBT youth.
Clinton is a wise cracking politically minded comedian whose swift wit has been entertaining audiences for over 25 years. Her shows are a mix of news of the day, commentary and observational humor covering religion, politics and LGBT issues.
Humor has long been a tool in creating political change. From court jesters and Jonathan Swift in the past to Steven Colbert and John Stewart today, comedy can say things about a society that cannot be said in other ways. Clinton is part of this tradition, asking the hard questions and as she says, ãtelling the truth no on would say.ä
Comedy also breaks down the barriers between people. "People hear each other in a light moment," Clinton said. Sometimes after a show she will be approached by a member of the audience who says, "I am a Republican but I still laughed." She laughs, "Should I congratulate them?"
According to Kate we all have the opportunity to make a difference but we need to realize that political action is sexy.
"Have you gone door to door with a friend?" She quips and continues say that we need to get out and do more then just send emails. "Moving your body around" is important, create community, have potlucks, get people together she advises starting a book club where ideas are exchanged and taken out into the world.
The creation of community is part of what Spectrum is doing in San Rafael. Their programs offer support groups for LGBTQ youth ages 14-19, GSA clubs and a new collaborative project with Youth Leadership Institute to create positive high school environments for LGBT youth.
The importance of community in creating political change is not lost on Paula Pilecki, Executive Director Spectrum LGBT Center. "We can provide support for kids who have been bullied in school; we can educate parents and guardians whose kids are gay; we can work with schools to be proactive about enforcing zero tolerance anti-bullying policies; and we can advocate for legislation that will protect all students, regardless of real or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity. None of these activities can stand alone; we need all of it to make a difference, and we need many voices in order to be heard", Pilecki said.
Kate will be performing on May 22 at, 1:00 PM in the Hoytt Theater, Osher Marin Jewish Community Center, 200 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael. Tickets are available exclusively through Spectrum at http://www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org/. (415) 472-1945, ext. 209.
Reposted from Gaysonoma.com
Quinn Conklin 03 May 2011
In a tour that she describes as "part glee and part tea" she looks at the expectation in society that all problems can be solved in one hour minus commercial breaks with a few song and dance numbers thrown in. Her performance at the Hoytt Theater will benefit Spectrum's advocacy programs for LGBT youth.
Clinton is a wise cracking politically minded comedian whose swift wit has been entertaining audiences for over 25 years. Her shows are a mix of news of the day, commentary and observational humor covering religion, politics and LGBT issues.
Humor has long been a tool in creating political change. From court jesters and Jonathan Swift in the past to Steven Colbert and John Stewart today, comedy can say things about a society that cannot be said in other ways. Clinton is part of this tradition, asking the hard questions and as she says, ãtelling the truth no on would say.ä
Comedy also breaks down the barriers between people. "People hear each other in a light moment," Clinton said. Sometimes after a show she will be approached by a member of the audience who says, "I am a Republican but I still laughed." She laughs, "Should I congratulate them?"
According to Kate we all have the opportunity to make a difference but we need to realize that political action is sexy.
"Have you gone door to door with a friend?" She quips and continues say that we need to get out and do more then just send emails. "Moving your body around" is important, create community, have potlucks, get people together she advises starting a book club where ideas are exchanged and taken out into the world.
The creation of community is part of what Spectrum is doing in San Rafael. Their programs offer support groups for LGBTQ youth ages 14-19, GSA clubs and a new collaborative project with Youth Leadership Institute to create positive high school environments for LGBT youth.
The importance of community in creating political change is not lost on Paula Pilecki, Executive Director Spectrum LGBT Center. "We can provide support for kids who have been bullied in school; we can educate parents and guardians whose kids are gay; we can work with schools to be proactive about enforcing zero tolerance anti-bullying policies; and we can advocate for legislation that will protect all students, regardless of real or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity. None of these activities can stand alone; we need all of it to make a difference, and we need many voices in order to be heard", Pilecki said.
Kate will be performing on May 22 at, 1:00 PM in the Hoytt Theater, Osher Marin Jewish Community Center, 200 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael. Tickets are available exclusively through Spectrum at http://www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org/. (415) 472-1945, ext. 209.
Reposted from Gaysonoma.com
Quinn Conklin 03 May 2011
Monday, March 21, 2011
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin, 3/26
Heavenly Harp with Michelle Sell
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin
Saturday, March 26, 1-3 PM
San Geronimo Valley Community Center
6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Geronimo
Includes a light lunch
Suggested donation: $5 (free for adults 60+)
RSVP to (415) 472-1945 ext. 209
or RSVP here
Join Spectrum LGBT Center for our first West Marin Event with harpist Michelle Sell. Michelle has performed with Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Sammy Davis, Jr., Joni Mitchell, k.d. Lang, Linda Ronstadt, Diana Krall and many more. In addition to performing original music, Michelle will share stories from her career.
All are welcome; we extend a special invitation to LGBT older adults in West Marin.
Friendly atmosphere, easy parking, heavenly music and good company!
An LGBT Gathering in West Marin
Saturday, March 26, 1-3 PM
San Geronimo Valley Community Center
6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Geronimo
Includes a light lunch
Suggested donation: $5 (free for adults 60+)
RSVP to (415) 472-1945 ext. 209
or RSVP here
Join Spectrum LGBT Center for our first West Marin Event with harpist Michelle Sell. Michelle has performed with Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Sammy Davis, Jr., Joni Mitchell, k.d. Lang, Linda Ronstadt, Diana Krall and many more. In addition to performing original music, Michelle will share stories from her career.
All are welcome; we extend a special invitation to LGBT older adults in West Marin.
Friendly atmosphere, easy parking, heavenly music and good company!
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Legal Changes and IRS Tax Filing Rules for Same-Sex Couples
A free workshop presented by DLK LawGroup, PC, in association with Spectrum LGBT Center
Monday, March 14, 6-8 PM
Marin Justice Center Conference Room, 30 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael
RSVP via email to rsvp@dlklawgroup.com or call us at (415) 693-0550.
Income tax laws have changed dramatically for same-sex couples who are married and/or Registered Domestic Partners and estate and gift tax laws have changed as well.
Naomi E. Metz, of DLKLawGroupPC and Karen Stogdill, tax practitioner, will be presenting a seminar on the legal changes in effect as of January 1, 2011, including what you need to understand to comply with the new tax laws and file federal tax returns.
The seminar will cover the following topics:
1) New mandatory Federal income tax filing requirements for same-sex couples
2) Community property attributes during life and at death
3) Titling of your real property and other property
4) Protecting and providing for you and your family
Monday, March 14, 6-8 PM
Marin Justice Center Conference Room, 30 North San Pedro Road, San Rafael
RSVP via email to rsvp@dlklawgroup.com or call us at (415) 693-0550.
Income tax laws have changed dramatically for same-sex couples who are married and/or Registered Domestic Partners and estate and gift tax laws have changed as well.
Naomi E. Metz, of DLKLawGroupPC and Karen Stogdill, tax practitioner, will be presenting a seminar on the legal changes in effect as of January 1, 2011, including what you need to understand to comply with the new tax laws and file federal tax returns.
The seminar will cover the following topics:
1) New mandatory Federal income tax filing requirements for same-sex couples
2) Community property attributes during life and at death
3) Titling of your real property and other property
4) Protecting and providing for you and your family
Monday, January 3, 2011
The $25,000 Challenge: Deadline Extended to January 15th, 2011
Happy New Year, everyone! If you've been following our $25,000 Year End Challenge, you know that we have just $3,400 left to raise in order to meet our goal. Thanks to Sean Callaway and Russell Zink, who called for the challenge and contributed the first $2,500 toward our goal.
Knowing that many people were away for the holidays, we are extending our deadline through January 15th, 2011. Gifts and pledges of all sizes are welcome.
You can make a donation online or by phone at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. Or, you can donate online now.
Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you in 2011!
Warmly,
Paula Pilecki, Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
Visit our website
Knowing that many people were away for the holidays, we are extending our deadline through January 15th, 2011. Gifts and pledges of all sizes are welcome.
You can make a donation online or by phone at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209. Or, you can donate online now.
Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you in 2011!
Warmly,
Paula Pilecki, Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
Visit our website
A Good Divorce? What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know
If you are embarking on the difficult journey of separating from your domestic partner, or divorcing your same-sex spouse, this free workshop is for you.
A GOOD DIVORCE?
What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
7:00 to 8:30 p.m.
Marin Justice Center Conference Room
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, CA 94903
RSVP by January 14 to (415) 472-1945 x 209
Pilecki@spectrumLGBTcenter.org
Download event flyer (pdf)
For LGBTQ couples, divorce can be more complex and expensive, especially when children are involved. We will provide basic information about divorce and mediation process options, legal information
pertaining specifically to same-sex couples, tips on how to deal with a contentious situation, and how to talk
to children about separation and divorce.
Coordinated by Spectrum LGBT Center in conjunction with the Marin Justice Center
SPEAKERS
Suzan Barrie Aiken, JD, Collaborative Attorney & Mediator
Debra Bellings-Kee, MFT, JD, Divorce Coach and Parenting Plan Mediator
Kris Cirby, JD, Family & Children’s Law Center
Alexandria Quam Rios, Legal Self Help Services of Marin Superior Courts
Mitchell Wunsh, Staff Attorney, Legal Aid of Marin
A GOOD DIVORCE?
What the LGBTQ Community Needs to Know
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
7:00 to 8:30 p.m.
Marin Justice Center Conference Room
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, CA 94903
RSVP by January 14 to (415) 472-1945 x 209
Pilecki@spectrumLGBTcenter.org
Download event flyer (pdf)
For LGBTQ couples, divorce can be more complex and expensive, especially when children are involved. We will provide basic information about divorce and mediation process options, legal information
pertaining specifically to same-sex couples, tips on how to deal with a contentious situation, and how to talk
to children about separation and divorce.
Coordinated by Spectrum LGBT Center in conjunction with the Marin Justice Center
SPEAKERS
Suzan Barrie Aiken, JD, Collaborative Attorney & Mediator
Debra Bellings-Kee, MFT, JD, Divorce Coach and Parenting Plan Mediator
Kris Cirby, JD, Family & Children’s Law Center
Alexandria Quam Rios, Legal Self Help Services of Marin Superior Courts
Mitchell Wunsh, Staff Attorney, Legal Aid of Marin
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
A $25,000 Year-End Challenge
A $25,000 Year-End Challenge
Dear Friends,
Spectrum's work is all about standing as a beacon of light for the LGBT community in the North Bay, especially for young people who turn to Spectrum for support and guidance, and to seniors who are charting new ground for living life fully.
As 2010 comes to a close, Spectrum supporters Russell Zink and Sean Callaway want to do something special to support our work. So, we've set a goal of raising $25,000 for Spectrum by December 31st. Russ and Sean have pledged a special year-end gift of $2,500 toward this goal.
If you prefer to make a pledge or credit card contribution to Spectrum by phone, call 415-472-1945, ext. 209. Credit and debit cards, monthly pledge payments, and one-time gifts are accepted.
To send a check:
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, California 94903
Because Spectrum is a non-profit organization, your gift is tax-deductible. Please consult with your tax accountant to find out what type of charitable contribution would best serve your needs.
Spectrum's Federal Tax Identification number is 94-2840016.
Thank you, and Happy Holidays!
Dear Friends,
Spectrum's work is all about standing as a beacon of light for the LGBT community in the North Bay, especially for young people who turn to Spectrum for support and guidance, and to seniors who are charting new ground for living life fully.
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| Russ Zink and Sean Callaway |
Russ and Sean are inviting you to help them meet this goal any way you can. Your gift will go directly toward promoting acceptance, understanding, and full inclusion for LGBT people of all ages in the North Bay.
Help us raise $25,000 by December 31st to support Spectrum's new Youth Advocacy Project. We'll be advocating for safe schools and legislation such as the FAIR Education Act, which ensures that LGBT people are fairly and accurately included in instructional materials.
Help us raise $25,000 by December 31st to support Spectrum's new Youth Advocacy Project. We'll be advocating for safe schools and legislation such as the FAIR Education Act, which ensures that LGBT people are fairly and accurately included in instructional materials.
(you don't need an account to do so)
If you prefer to make a pledge or credit card contribution to Spectrum by phone, call 415-472-1945, ext. 209. Credit and debit cards, monthly pledge payments, and one-time gifts are accepted.
To send a check:
Spectrum LGBT Center
30 North San Pedro Road, Suite 160
San Rafael, California 94903
Because Spectrum is a non-profit organization, your gift is tax-deductible. Please consult with your tax accountant to find out what type of charitable contribution would best serve your needs.
Spectrum's Federal Tax Identification number is 94-2840016.
Thank you, and Happy Holidays!
Monday, October 25, 2010
Make it Better, Marin
Doug Williams attended public school in Marin County. In this video, he talks about how principals, superintendents, teachers, and parents can make school a better place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning (LGBTQ) students.
Thanks to Lacy Atkins for volunteering her time to shoot and edit this video for us; and of course to Doug for speaking!
If you live or work in Marin County, or attend school in Marin, and would like to shoot a "Make it Better, Marin" video contact Paula Pilecki at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209.
Thanks to Lacy Atkins for volunteering her time to shoot and edit this video for us; and of course to Doug for speaking!
If you live or work in Marin County, or attend school in Marin, and would like to shoot a "Make it Better, Marin" video contact Paula Pilecki at (415) 472-1945, ext. 209.
Friday, October 22, 2010
President Obama speaks to LGBTQ Youth
The White House has released this message from President Barak Obama to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning youth. Spectrum LGBT Center, along with many other organizations around the country, continues to work to make it better for all LGBTQ people right in our own community. Please join us in our work.
Monday, October 11, 2010
Spectrum LGBT Center marks National Coming Out Day with Call to Action
Marin County rallies to raise awareness about anti-gay bullying and teen suicide
SAN RAFAEL, CA -- In response to the tragic suicides by lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth in recent weeks, Spectrum LGBT Center has issued a call to action for Marin County residents: Come out and let our youth know they are not alone.
The rally will take place on Monday, October 11th, 6:00 – 7:00 PM on the steps of San Rafael City Hall, 1400 Fifth Avenue (between C and D Streets). The event will feature musical performances, guest speakers, and a special open mic time for youth.
The Marin rally is among thousands of national actions that will occur on October 11th, known as National Coming Out Day, which began after half a million people participated in the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights on October 11th, 1987.
Paula Pilecki, Spectrum’s Executive Director, says this year it’s especially important to gather together on Coming Out Day. “LGBT young people need to see that they are not alone, and that there are people who will stand with them, support them, and love them unconditionally,” says Pilecki. “We call on parents, educators, faith communities, and the community at large to speak out openly in support of our young people, and against anti-gay bullying and the violence it ultimately causes.”
According to a study conducted by the California Safe Schools Coalition, harassment based on actual or perceived sexual orientation is pervasive throughout middle and high schools. These students typically feel less supported than their peers by adults, teachers, and other students, and have fewer resources for coping with problems. As a result, they are more likely to experience poor academic outcomes, substance use, depression and suicide.
It is common for middle and high school students to hear anti-gay slurs between 10 and 20 times a day while they are in school. According to Pilecki, this requires significant attention from teachers and administrators who will proactively enforce zero-tolerance policies toward bullying for any reason.
Anti-gay comments are often dismissed as harmless behavior by school personnel. They fail to realize the profoundly negative effect these comments have on students who may be struggling with their sexual orientation or gender identity. And, failure to address aggression toward one segment of the student population creates an unsafe learning environment for all students.”
One of the most effective ways to address this situation is to create learning environments where all young people feel safe and respected. Spectrum has created a training program that assists teachers and administrators to do just that.
“We help teachers figure out how to incorporate age-appropriate conversations about LGBT issues in the classroom, and how to talk with students about the impact of anti-gay remarks and slurs against each other,” says Pilecki.
Spectrum also manages a volunteer speakers bureau that reaches nearly 3,000 students each year. The purpose of these classroom presentations is to give students an opportunity to meet someone who is lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, a tactic that has been proven to reduce anti-gay sentiment and reduce negative stereotyping.
“All young people desperately need compassion and understanding from the adults in their lives”, says Pilecki. “We can make it better for them. Let’s not let them down.”
EVENT INFORMATION
MARIN COUNTY CALL TO ACTION:
Come out together and make it better for all youth on National Coming Out Day
*Stand against teen suicide
*Support LGBT youth
*Create safer schools and communities for everyone
Organized by Spectrum LGBT Center, with production assistance from Shelley Champine, Local Music Vibe
Monday, October 11th, 6:00 – 7:00 PM
San Rafael City Hall, 1400 Fifth Avenue, San Rafael
Music performances by Shelley Doty, with Green and Root
About Shelley Doty: Labeled "a future legend" by one reviewer and a "guitar goddess" by another, Shelley Doty is considered one the best independent performers in the business. Watching her perform is awe-inspiring due to her masterful guitar licks, soulful voice and charismatic stage presence. As a songwriter, she creates articulate songs for today by sprinkling them with respect for the music of her youth (rock, R&B, jazz, funk). Her brand new CD "Over The Line" is now out and available via CD Baby.
About Green and Root: Their music is an intimate yet spirited mix of folk, pop and rock, with acoustic guitar based songs, dazzling harmonies and award winning songs. Their first music video for their song "Marrying You" is on the front page of www.outofthecloset.tv/music and had over 1000 downloads in one week alone. The song is also being used as the theme for a documentary film seen on QTV.
Speakers (partial listing):
Cristin Brew, Spectrum LGBT Center
Mary Jane Burke, Marin County Superintendent of Schools
Lilia Chavez, Youth Leadership Institute
Damon Connolly, San Rafael City Council
Rev. Carol Hovis, Marin Interfaith Council
Rabbi Chai Levy, Congregation Kol Shofar
Maureen Sedonaen, Youth Leadership Institute
Fresh! White, Whole Life Coach
Cynthia Wuthmann, Parent and Board Member, San Rafael Public Education Foundation
Community Co-Sponsors (partial and growing list):
Community Congregational Church of Tiburon-Belvedere
Community Healing Centers, Counseling and Psychotherapy
Community Institute for Psychotherapy
Epochalips.com - Lesbians & Allies
Local Music Vibe
Marin Peace and Justice Coalition
Youth Leadership Institute
SAN RAFAEL, CA -- In response to the tragic suicides by lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth in recent weeks, Spectrum LGBT Center has issued a call to action for Marin County residents: Come out and let our youth know they are not alone.
The rally will take place on Monday, October 11th, 6:00 – 7:00 PM on the steps of San Rafael City Hall, 1400 Fifth Avenue (between C and D Streets). The event will feature musical performances, guest speakers, and a special open mic time for youth.
The Marin rally is among thousands of national actions that will occur on October 11th, known as National Coming Out Day, which began after half a million people participated in the March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights on October 11th, 1987.
Paula Pilecki, Spectrum’s Executive Director, says this year it’s especially important to gather together on Coming Out Day. “LGBT young people need to see that they are not alone, and that there are people who will stand with them, support them, and love them unconditionally,” says Pilecki. “We call on parents, educators, faith communities, and the community at large to speak out openly in support of our young people, and against anti-gay bullying and the violence it ultimately causes.”
According to a study conducted by the California Safe Schools Coalition, harassment based on actual or perceived sexual orientation is pervasive throughout middle and high schools. These students typically feel less supported than their peers by adults, teachers, and other students, and have fewer resources for coping with problems. As a result, they are more likely to experience poor academic outcomes, substance use, depression and suicide.
It is common for middle and high school students to hear anti-gay slurs between 10 and 20 times a day while they are in school. According to Pilecki, this requires significant attention from teachers and administrators who will proactively enforce zero-tolerance policies toward bullying for any reason.
Anti-gay comments are often dismissed as harmless behavior by school personnel. They fail to realize the profoundly negative effect these comments have on students who may be struggling with their sexual orientation or gender identity. And, failure to address aggression toward one segment of the student population creates an unsafe learning environment for all students.”
One of the most effective ways to address this situation is to create learning environments where all young people feel safe and respected. Spectrum has created a training program that assists teachers and administrators to do just that.
“We help teachers figure out how to incorporate age-appropriate conversations about LGBT issues in the classroom, and how to talk with students about the impact of anti-gay remarks and slurs against each other,” says Pilecki.
Spectrum also manages a volunteer speakers bureau that reaches nearly 3,000 students each year. The purpose of these classroom presentations is to give students an opportunity to meet someone who is lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, a tactic that has been proven to reduce anti-gay sentiment and reduce negative stereotyping.
“All young people desperately need compassion and understanding from the adults in their lives”, says Pilecki. “We can make it better for them. Let’s not let them down.”
EVENT INFORMATION
MARIN COUNTY CALL TO ACTION:
Come out together and make it better for all youth on National Coming Out Day
*Stand against teen suicide
*Support LGBT youth
*Create safer schools and communities for everyone
Organized by Spectrum LGBT Center, with production assistance from Shelley Champine, Local Music Vibe
Monday, October 11th, 6:00 – 7:00 PM
San Rafael City Hall, 1400 Fifth Avenue, San Rafael
Music performances by Shelley Doty, with Green and Root
About Shelley Doty: Labeled "a future legend" by one reviewer and a "guitar goddess" by another, Shelley Doty is considered one the best independent performers in the business. Watching her perform is awe-inspiring due to her masterful guitar licks, soulful voice and charismatic stage presence. As a songwriter, she creates articulate songs for today by sprinkling them with respect for the music of her youth (rock, R&B, jazz, funk). Her brand new CD "Over The Line" is now out and available via CD Baby.
About Green and Root: Their music is an intimate yet spirited mix of folk, pop and rock, with acoustic guitar based songs, dazzling harmonies and award winning songs. Their first music video for their song "Marrying You" is on the front page of www.outofthecloset.tv/music and had over 1000 downloads in one week alone. The song is also being used as the theme for a documentary film seen on QTV.
Speakers (partial listing):
Cristin Brew, Spectrum LGBT Center
Mary Jane Burke, Marin County Superintendent of Schools
Lilia Chavez, Youth Leadership Institute
Damon Connolly, San Rafael City Council
Rev. Carol Hovis, Marin Interfaith Council
Rabbi Chai Levy, Congregation Kol Shofar
Maureen Sedonaen, Youth Leadership Institute
Fresh! White, Whole Life Coach
Cynthia Wuthmann, Parent and Board Member, San Rafael Public Education Foundation
Community Co-Sponsors (partial and growing list):
Community Congregational Church of Tiburon-Belvedere
Community Healing Centers, Counseling and Psychotherapy
Community Institute for Psychotherapy
Epochalips.com - Lesbians & Allies
Local Music Vibe
Marin Peace and Justice Coalition
Youth Leadership Institute
Friday, October 8, 2010
MARIN COUNTY RALLY TO MAKE IT BETTER - OCT. 11
Come out in Marin on October 11th to make it better for ALL youth
October 11th is National Coming Out Day. Let’s rally together to:
*Support LGBT youth*
*Raise awareness about teen suicide*
*Build communities and schools that are safe for all our youth and families*
Gather with us on the steps of San Rafael City Hall
MONDAY, OCTOBER 11th, 6-7 PM
San Rafael City Hall Plaza – 1400 Fifth Avenue (between C and D Streets)
Music TBA
Confirmed Speakers (partial listing):
Mary Jane Burke, Superintendent, Marin County Office of Education
Damon Connolly, San Rafael City Councilmember
Paula Pilecki, Spectrum LGBT Center
Maureen Sedonaen, Youth Leadership Institute
Maureen Sedonaen, Youth Leadership Institute
Community Co-Sponsors: Local Music Vibe
Organized by Spectrum LGBT Center
Complete this form to have your organization listed as a community co-sponsor.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
BODY COUNT AT SIX
School has been in session for only a month, and already the news this week carries the sad stories of six gay kids who have killed themselves in the face of outrageous and unrelenting taunting. We each need to take an aggressive stand to stop this bullying today.
Seth Walsh, 13 y.o., dies today after hanging himself in a tree, when he couldn't handle the nonstop, anti-gay bullying at his middle school in Tehachapi, CA.
Asher Brown, 13 y.o., killed himself with a 9mm Beretta in Texas last week after enduring what has been described as constant, anti-gay harassment at his middle school.
Tyler Clementi, 18 y.o., plunges to his death in the Hudson River last week after his roommate at Rutgers University secretly films him having sex with another guy, and streams it on the Internet.
Justin Aaberg, 15 y.o., kills himself in Anoka, MN, in July, after bullying at his high school, compounded with a recent breakup.
Billy Lucas, 15 y.o., was perceived to be gay by students at Greensburg High School, was called a "fag" and told that he didn't "deserve to live". Two weeks ago, he went into his barn at their home in Indiana and hung himself.
Eric Mohat, 17 y.o., of Mentor, OH was harassed so mercilessly in high school that when one bully said publicly in class, "Why don't you go home and shoot yourself, no one will miss you," he did, earlier this year.
--Chris Kryzan
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Chris Kryzan volunteers for Spectrum's Speakers Bureau, which reaches nearly 3,000 students in Marin County schools each year. The goal of the Speakers Bureau is to create safe and inclusive classrooms for all students by shattering stereotypes about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. Volunteer speakers share their personal stories and challenge students to avoid language and actions that promote bigotry, discrimination, and violence against other students. For more information, visit www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org.
Seth Walsh, 13 y.o., dies today after hanging himself in a tree, when he couldn't handle the nonstop, anti-gay bullying at his middle school in Tehachapi, CA.
Asher Brown, 13 y.o., killed himself with a 9mm Beretta in Texas last week after enduring what has been described as constant, anti-gay harassment at his middle school.
Tyler Clementi, 18 y.o., plunges to his death in the Hudson River last week after his roommate at Rutgers University secretly films him having sex with another guy, and streams it on the Internet.
Justin Aaberg, 15 y.o., kills himself in Anoka, MN, in July, after bullying at his high school, compounded with a recent breakup.
Billy Lucas, 15 y.o., was perceived to be gay by students at Greensburg High School, was called a "fag" and told that he didn't "deserve to live". Two weeks ago, he went into his barn at their home in Indiana and hung himself.
Eric Mohat, 17 y.o., of Mentor, OH was harassed so mercilessly in high school that when one bully said publicly in class, "Why don't you go home and shoot yourself, no one will miss you," he did, earlier this year.
--Chris Kryzan
******************
Chris Kryzan volunteers for Spectrum's Speakers Bureau, which reaches nearly 3,000 students in Marin County schools each year. The goal of the Speakers Bureau is to create safe and inclusive classrooms for all students by shattering stereotypes about lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. Volunteer speakers share their personal stories and challenge students to avoid language and actions that promote bigotry, discrimination, and violence against other students. For more information, visit www.spectrumlgbtcenter.org.
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