Showing posts with label Marriage Equality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage Equality. Show all posts

Monday, February 6, 2012

PROP 8 DAY OF DECISION GATHERING PLACES

Re-Posted from Marriage Equality USA

San Francisco, CA
-- Same-sex couples, friends, family and clergy will gather at the steps of the Ninth Circuit Federal Courthouse in San Francisco at 9:45 AM Tuesday, February 7th to receive the Ninth Circuit’s ruling on Proposition 8.  The Court will release the ruling at 10:00 AM.  Those gathered will then walk to the steps of San Francisco City Hall, where clergy will bless the unions of couples unable to marry because of Prop 8.

At 5:00 PM, a community rally will be held at Market and 17th (across from Castro & Market) in San Francisco.  Similar events will be held in communities across California, including Contra Costa County, Fresno,  Los Angeles, Sacramento, San Diego and Santa Clara County.

“We are very hopeful that the Ninth Circuit will rule in favor of fairness and equality, once and for all putting an end to Prop. 8’s exclusion of loving, committed couples from marriage,” said John Lewis, Marriage Equality USA’s Legal Director.

"We are a loving couple who have committed our lives to each other for the past nine years, and we will be at the courthouse in the morning to receive the decision," said Thom Watson, who shares his life and a home in Daly City with his partner Jeff Tabaco. "We are a family and we want to be married. We are on pins and needles waiting to see if the Ninth Circuit will enable us to fulfill the American dream of marrying the one you love," added Tabaco.

“Love is a blessing, and we will celebrate tomorrow’s ruling by blessing same-sex couples at San Francisco City Hall to recognize that love and commitment make a marriage,” said Rev. Roland Stringfellow, Director of Ministerial Outreach for the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies.

A diverse coalition of community organizations came together to create events statewide :

Contra Costa County
What: Community gathering at the Rainbow Community Center
Where: Rainbow Community Center
3024 Willow Pass Road, Suite 200, Concord, CA 94519
When: 6:00–7:00 PM Tuesday, February 7
Contact: Leslie Stewart (925) 765-6064

Fresno

What: Community Rally
Where: Corner of N. Blackstone Avenue and E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno, CA 93726
When: 5:00-7:00 PM Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Bring pro-equality, No on 8 signs.
Contact: Jaymi Morgan (559) 704-7683

Los Angeles
What: Community Rally, then a march down Santa Monica Blvd.
Where: West Hollywood Park on N. Robertson Blvd. (next to the Abbey Bar),West Hollywood, CA 90069
When: 6:00 PM Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Signs will be provided, but please bring your own as well.
Contact: Tristan Blaine (805) 657-4150

Sacramento
What: Informal gathering at The Cornerstone inside Headhunters in midtown Sacramento to await the posting of the decision to the 9th Circuit's website.
Where: The Cornerstone inside Headhunters, 1930 K Street, Sacramento, CA 95816
When: 9:30 AM Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Wear Marriage Equality USA, Equality Action NOW, No on 8 t-shirts and be prepared to talk with media.  Bring $$ for coffee, etc.
Contact: Ken Pierce (916) 718-3464

San Diego
What: Street Protest/Celebration, then proceed to Community Center Rally
Where: Meet at 6th Avenue and University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103
Then proceed to the LGBT Community Center, 3909 Centre Street, San Diego, CA 92103
When: Time TBD; Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Bring signs to celebrate or protest the outcome of the case.
Contact: Fernando Lopez (619) 861-7939

San Francisco
Morning
What: Gather on the steps of the Ninth Circuit Federal Courthouse, San Francisco to receive the ruling (anticipated at 10:00 AM).  Afterwards, we will proceed to San Francisco City Hall, where clergy will be available to bless couples who are not able to marry because of Prop. 8.
Where: Ninth Circuit Federal Courthouse, 95 7th Street at Mission, San Francisco, CA 94103
When: 9:30 AM Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Signs will be provided – you’re welcome to also bring your own.
Contact: Billy Bradford (415) 716-6315
Evening
What: Community Rally with music and speakers. We will either celebrate or protest the decision, and either way, re-dedicate our resolve to achieve full equality nationwide.
Where: Market Street & 17th Street (across from Castro & Market), San Francisco, CA 94114
When: 5:00 PM Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Wear your pro-equality, pro-marriage equality, or No on 8 t-shirts.
Contacts: Rev. Kelly Rivera Hart (415) 260-5704 and Billy Bradford (415) 716-6315

Santa Clara County
What: Community rally gathering to celebrate or protest the decision, and to rededicate our resolve to achieve full equality nationwide.
Where: Mountain View City Hall, 500 Castro St, Mountain View, CA 94041
When: 6:00–7:00 PM Tuesday, February 7
Materials: Bring your pro-equality posters, banners, etc., wear pro-equality t-shirts
Contact: Lisa Liu 408-741-4824

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

COMMUNITY EVENTS ON DAY NINTH CIRCUIT ANNOUNCES PROP 8 DECISION

From Marriage Equality USA - 1/10/12

Please join same-sex couples, LGBTIQ people, friends, family, and clergy for 2 events on the day that the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals announces its decision regarding Proposition 8.  The Ninth Circuit has completed all hearings and briefing in the case and could rule at any time.

9:45 AM COURTHOUSE PROP 8 DECISION: Gather on the steps of the Ninth Circuit Federal Courthouse, 95 7th Street (at Mission), San Francisco to receive the ruling (anticipated at 10:00 AM).  Afterwards, we will proceed to San Francisco City Hall, where clergy will be available to bless couples who are not able to marry because of Prop. 8.  (Even if the Ninth Circuit rules in our favor, it is highly likely that there will be a stay on the decision so that no marriages could take place immediately.)

5:00 PM COMMUNITY RALLY: Gather at Market & 17th (across from Castro & Market) San Francisco for a community rally.  We will either celebrate or protest the decision, and either way, rededicate our resolve to achieve full equality nationwide.

For further information contact: Billy Bradford at bbradford@marriageequality.org or (415) 716-6315.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

A Bump in the Road for Marriage Equality - by Ruth Dell

In 2008,  California voters enacted Prop 8,  which banned state recognition of same sex marriages through an amendment  to the state’s constitution.   The American Foundation for Equal Rights subsequently filed a lawsuit ,  Perry v. Schwarzenegger,   which asserted that Prop 8 was unconstitutional,  and that banning  marriage equality violated the Fourteenth Amendment of the  U.S. Constitution,  which requires the equal protection of the law.   Our then governor,  Arnold Schwarzenegger,  and our then attorney general,  now governor,  Jerry Brown,   opposed Prop 8, and refused to defend the case on behalf of the state.  The case proceeded with the anti-gay-marriage group that sponsored  Prop 8,  ProtectMarriage,  representing the state to defend Prop 8.

Judge Vaughn Walker,  who heard the case in federal  court,  ruled in 2010 that Prop 8 violated the U.S. Constitution,  and that same sex couples had a constitutional right to marry.   The case then went up on appeal to the Ninth Circuit.   The Ninth Circuit then asked the California Supreme Court the following question -  do proponents of ballot initiatives have the authority to represent the state when the state’s public officials decline to do so?   If the CA Supreme Court had ruled that ProtectMarriage did not have standing,  or the right to appeal the district court decision, Judge Walker’s decision would have stood,  as no party would have the right to appeal it. 
This is not what happened. 

Instead, on November 17,  2011,  the CA Supreme Court unanimously decided that proponents of ballot initiatives have the authority to represent  the state of California when the state’s public officials decline to do so.  The court ruled that ProtectMarriage has the right to defend the constitutionality of Prop 8  and to appeal a judgment invalidating it.   Proponents of marriage equality were disappointed in the ruling.  Shannon Minter of the National Center for Lesbian Rights called the CA  Supreme Court’s decision “terrible” and “dangerous”,  and that it gave “initiative proponents unprecedented and virtually unlimited  power…”

Since the Ninth Circuit asked the CA Supreme Court for its opinion on the standing question, it  is most likely that it will accept this ruling of the CA Supreme Court,  and thus the Ninth Circuit will proceed to decide the constitutionality of Prop 8 on its merits.   The Ninth Circuit is a progressive court, and advocates of marriage equality are hopeful that the court will rule in favor of the freedom to marry.   Both sides generally agree that whichever way the Ninth Circuit rules,  there is a strong likelihood that the U.S. Supreme Court will eventually hear the case.
Ruth Dell volunteers for a number of non-profit organizations. She is Spectrum's Marriage Equality Correspondent.

Friday, May 6, 2011

SB 5 Defeated; Legislative Victory for Marriage Equality in CA

On May 3, SB 5, the Automatic Proposition Standing Bill, which would have required the state of California to defend ballot measures adopted by voters, including Prop 8, was defeated. The bill never made it out of the Senate Judiciary Committee; the five Democrats on the committee voted against the bill, the three Republicans voted for it. Anti-marriage equality advocates were solidly behind the bill; had it passed, it would have required the Attorney General to defend Prop 8. Former Attorney General (now governor) Jerry Brown and current Attorney General Kamala Harris refuse to defend Prop 8 on the basis that it is unconstitutional. The defeat of SB 5 was a legislative victory for the marriage equality movement in California.

Posted by Ruth Dell, Spectrum's Marriage Equality Correspondent

Monday, August 16, 2010

What the Ninth Circuit Ruling Means for Same-Sex Couples Who Want to Get Married

From NCLR

(San Francisco, CA, August 16, 2010) — Today, the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals granted the Proposition 8 proponents’ motion to stay U.S. District Court Judge Vaughn Walker’s decision, which means that same-sex couples in California will not be able to marry while the case is on appeal. However, the Ninth Circuit put the appeal on a fast track and specifically directed the Prop 8 proponents to address “why the appeal should not be dismissed for lack of Article III standing” in their opening brief. That means that the Court will consider whether the decision can be appealed at the same time that it is considering whether Judge Walker’s decision that Prop 8 violates the federal constitutional is legally correct.
All the briefing must be completed by November 1, 2010 and the oral argument will take place the week of December 6, 2010.

Proponents’ opening brief is due September 17. The plaintiffs’ opposing brief is due October 18. The proponents’ reply brief is due November 1.

The Ninth Circuit is not required to issue its decision within any particular time frame after oral argument; however, when an appeal is expedited, the Court tends to issue decisions more quickly. That said, it is still likely to take at least a few weeks or months after the oral argument in December for the Court to issue a decision.

Once the Ninth Circuit rules, the losing side can ask the United States Supreme Court to hear the case. The Supreme Court then has discretion to take the case or to let the Ninth Circuit’s decision stand.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Help Us Make History Wednesday - Join Your Local Day of Decision Gathering

Marriage Equality Supporters,

Judge Walker will issue his decision in the Federal Prop 8 case on Wednesday, August 3, 2010 between 1-3pm.  The decision will be posted at www.cand.uscourts.gov and on our home page at www.marriageequality.org and you can watch the decision being read by an actor playing Judge Walker at marriagetrial.com. 

Then, plan on joining the local community gathering near you to celebrate (hopefully) and organize our next steps on our journey to justice.   Let's turn out for love, justice and equality for all - bring your family, bring your friends - be counted!

Below is the current list of over 30 organized events.  If your location isn't currently listed and you'd like to organize an event, post it at www.prop8decision.com and contact us a media@marriageequality.org.  

And to support Marriage Equality USA with grassroots organizing, like these Day of Decision rallies, please become a member or donate to our organization at http://www.marriageequality.org/join-now

Federal Prop 8 Trial Day of Decision Events

Below is our current list for Day of Decision events.  For the latest information, go to the Day of Decision website (www.prop8decision.com)

In California:

Contra Costa County – Concord at Todos Santos Plaza at Willow Pass and Grant at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

Contra Costa County – Martinez at the County Clerk’s Office at 822 Main Street at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

Contra Costa County – Pittsburg at Community Presbyterian Church at 200 E. Leland Road at 7pm.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

Contra Costa County – Richmond at City Hall at 450 Civic Center Plaza at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

Contra Costa County – Walnut Creek at City Hall on 1666 North Main Street at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

Fresno County – City Hall at 2600 Fresno Street at 7:30pm.  Contact ca-fresno@marriageequality.org.

Kern County – Bakersfield at the Outback corner of Stockdale and Village at 5pm.  Contact ca-kern@marriageequality.org

Los Angeles County at 647 N. San Vincente Blvd, West Hollywood from 6-8pm. 

Los Angeles County at Olivera Street Plaza, 845 N. Alameda Street in LA; a candlelight vigil from 8-10pm. 

Mendocino County – Ukiah at Alex Thomas Plaza at 6 PM. Contact ca-mendocino@marriageequality.org

Orange County - Santa Ana at Sasscer Park at 7 PM

Riverside County – Palm Springs at the County Courthouse at 7 PM. 

Riverside County/San Bernardino County - Rancho Cucamonga at Day Creek and Foothill Blvd, 6 PM

Sacramento County – Sacramento County – Two hours after the decision is released; a Sacramento press conference at the LGBT Center at 1927 L Street (off 20th Street).  Contact ca-sacramento@marriageequality.org

Sacramento County – 6pm at McMartin Realty at 2031 K Street (corner of 21st Street).  Contact ca-sacramento@marriageequality.org

Solano County on the Vallejo Waterfront at the Ferry Terminal at Mare Island Way and Georgia Street at 5:30-7 PM.

Sonoma County - 7:30pm, Santa Rosa City Hall at 100 Santa Rosa Ave. in Santa Rosa. Contact ca-sonoma@marriageequality.org

San Diego County – Gather at 6pm at 6th & University, march to The Center at 3909 Centre Street for a Town Hall from 7-8pm. 

San Francisco County – San Francisco starting at Harvey Milk Plaza in the Castro at 5PM and ending with a march to Civic Center Plaza for a rally at 6:45PM. Contact media@marriageequality.org.

San Luis Obispo County at the Mission Plaza Amphitheater at 5:30pm.  Contact ca-sanluisobispo@marriageequality.org.

San Mateo County/Mid-San Francisco Peninsula at the corner of 5th and El Camino Real in San Mateo from 6-8pm.  Contact ca-sanmateo@marriageequality.org.

Santa Barbara County at Jill's Place, 632 Santa Barbara St at 7pm.  Contact ca-santabarabara@marriageequality.org.

Santa Clara County - Mountain View CalTrain Station and City Hall at 6PM.  Contact ca-santaclara@marriageequality.org.

Santa Clara County – San Jose at the Billy De Frank Community Center at 938 The Alameda at 6 PM.  Contact ca-santaclara@marriageequality.org.

Tulare – Kings Counties- Porterville on sidewalk in front of SaveMart at Henderson and Port at 5PM.  Contact ca-tulare@marriageequality.org.

Outside California:
Arizona – Cesar Chavez Plaza, Phoenix from 5:30-8pm. Contact events@equalityevents.ning.com

Colorado – Boulder County at 6:30pm at the Boulder Pride House (2132 14th Street, Bouder).

Colorado – Denver at the Colorado State Capitol Building at 6 PM. Contact colorado@marriageequality.org.

Texas – Austin at City Hall at 5:30 PM.

Texas –  Dallas at the Center Cedar Springs Road and Oak Lawn at 6 PM.

Texas – Denton at Courthouse Square at 5 PM.

Texas – Houston at City Hall at 5:30 PM.

Texas – San Antonio at City Hall at 6:30 PM.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Presbyterian Charged, Officiated at Wedding for Two Women

For the first time in California, a Presbyterian minister was charged by her denomination for performing legal marriages.

The Rev. Janie Spahr faced a pretrial hearing on March 3, 2010, in Rohnert Park, Calif., based on charges for an alleged disciplinary offense in the Presbyterian Church (USA) for officiating at the marriage of Sara Taylor and Sherrie Holmes in June 2008.

Janie is the founder of Spectrum LGBT Center (formerly Ministry of Light). She has a long history with charges being filed against her in various church courts. She has now been charged with church-related charges of officiating at a legal wedding under the laws of the State of California.

(Media-Newswire.com) – For the first time in California, a Presbyterian minister was charged by her denomination for performing legal marriages. The Rev. Janie Spahr, faced a pretrial hearing on March 3, 2010, in Rohnert Park, Calif., based on charges for an alleged disciplinary offense in the Presbyterian Church USA for officiating at the marriage of Sara Taylor and Sherrie Holmes in June 2008.

The charges came as a result of allegations filed with the Presbytery of the Redwoods, a regional body, made by a member of a local church. The allegations were reviewed by the Investigating Committee of the Presbytery who then charged her with a violation of her ordination vows. Rev. Spahr officiated at many legal, same gender marriages that are still legal in California, since Proposition 8 did not annul any marriages. More than 11,000 same-sex couples are legally married in California.

For the past 500 years the church and state have participated together in celebrating marriages that are authorized by the civil authority and solemnized in religious ceremonies. Should the Rev. Spahr be found guilty of the offense by her Presbytery, it would be the first time a minister in the Presbyterian Church USA would be disciplined for celebrating a marriage authorized by the State. At a pretrial hearing held March 3rd the Rev. Spahr pled not guilty. The trial before the Presbytery of the Redwoods Permanent Judicial Commission is expected to be held either the week of August 23rd or the week of September 20th. The exact date has yet to be announced.

Rev. Spahr remains in good standing within the church and is honorably retired. Rev. Spahr’s advocates in this church proceeding are Scott Clark, a former attorney who is now a candidate for Ministry in the Presbyterian Church and Beverly Brewster, a Presbyterian Minister.

In 2008, the Presbyterian Church USA national body took a step toward full equality for gay people in the denomination when it passed a constitutional amendment to eliminate all bars for membership or ordination. The amendment received historic levels of support from the 173 regional presbyteries but fell short of receiving the two-thirds vote needed for ratification. The denomination will hold its next biennial meeting July 3-10, 2010, in Minneapolis, Minn. Full inclusion of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people will be on the table again.

To find out more, visit http://www.revjanespahr.org/.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Feature: Out of the 'Ash'

Despite improved acceptance, not all gay young adults are ready for the ball just yet...

by Ronnie Cohen

The fantasy world of Fairfax author Malinda Lo's recently published novel, Ash, unfolds long ago, in a time of kings, witches and fairies. But the tale's nonchalant acceptance of homosexual love propels the lesbian retelling of Cinderella into the future.

The turnout at an event earlier this month in the Fairfax Library illustrates just how far off a world free of homophobia, like the one in Ash, might be. Although a Fairfax librarian contacted leaders of gay-pride clubs at local high schools, only one student showed up to hear Lo speak about the book she wrote for young adults.

Two teachers who lead Redwood High School's Pride Plus Club did attend the library reading. They say some of the club's 10 or so members might have shied away from the event for fear it would lead to their parents learning about their homosexuality.

Since they attended high school, the teachers say, the climate for gay and lesbian teens has improved markedly. Kate Lorch, who teaches English at Redwood, graduated from high school in 1994. "I was so relieved and happy to find these high school students were so much more accepting and open as the culture had evolved," she says.

Still, Lorch and Greg Stevens, a Spanish teacher and co-leader of Redwood's Pride Plus, say students hesitate to announce to their families and their communities that they're gay. When they do, their parents sometimes counsel them against making public pronouncements about their sexual preferences for fear of persecution. That fear can translate into being unable to come out and hear a lesbian author talk about her work.

Casey Halcro runs youth groups for gays and lesbians through Spectrum LGBT Center in Novato. "Still, in 2009, the kids don't feel like it's really all that safe, even in Marin County, to be open and honest about their sexuality," she says. "It's been 11 years since Matthew Shepard was shot and left to die in Laramie, Wyoming. But it's only been two years since Lawrence King, a 15-year-old boy, was shot point-blank because kids thought he dressed too femininely here in California."

A 14-year-old boy allegedly killed Lawrence King in an Oxnard classroom in February 2008, a few weeks after he stated publicly he was gay. In contrast, women who love women face no threat of persecution in the world Lo creates for her well-received first book. When the main character, Ash, chooses a huntress over a prince, she does not grapple with a label or the need to come out as a lesbian.

"In Ash's world, there are no lesbians, technically," Lo says. "The fairytale is that she can fall in love with whoever she wants. There's no homophobia in this fantasy world. No one blinks an eye. So it's not a coming-out story. The fairytale is really about her falling in love, and it doesn't matter who it's with."

• • • •

ABOUT A YEAR ago, Lo, 35, moved within walking distance of the Fairfax Library to live with her partner, Amy Lovell, and their black lab mix, Spy Girl. On a recent sunny afternoon, Lo took a break from work on her second book, a young adult quest novel, to talk about how she came to be a writer, marriage, being what she calls "queer" and Ash.

Sitting at her kitchen table with Spy Girl at her side, Lo, who was born in China and moved to the U.S. when she was 3, wears jeans, a T-shirt and sneakers. Her shiny black hair falls straight to her chin. In the first draft Lo wrote of Ash about eight years ago, the main character, a young girl, falls in love with a fairy godfather. After reading the draft, one of Lo's friends suggested that Ash had more chemistry with the huntress than the male fairy.

"It was a surprise to me," Lo says, still sounding surprised. "I hadn't intended to write this same-sex romance. I was worried that it would sound gimmicky to write a lesbian Cinderella. But it seemed clear that that's what I wanted to do—subconsciously, at least."

In Ash, there is no glass slipper, the prince has money and power but not necessarily charm, and he does not roam the countryside searching for a beauty with one shoe. Like Cinderella, though, Ash's parents die and leave her to serve an evil stepmother and two stepsisters. Also like Cinderella, because Lo loves parties, Ash attends balls.

In Ash, men tend to marry women, and humans tend to favor humans. But the spectrum of normal sexuality widens so that it's also normal when the fairy godfather falls for Ash and when Ash falls for the huntress.

Lo says she always loved to write, but after graduating from Wellesley College with a degree in economics and Chinese studies, she tried unsuccessfully to become a banker and then went to graduate school, first at Harvard for East Asian studies and then at Stanford, studying Hollywood as a cultural anthropologist.

Unhappy as an academic, Lo quit her Stanford doctorate program and went to work first as a writer and then as an editor at www.afterellen.com , a Web site for lesbians and bisexual women in entertainment.

From www.afterellen.com, Lo learned that lesbian women were tired of being marginalized or killed off in mass media. "It was very clear to me that these women want stories where the lesbians have a happy ending," she says.

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ASH INCORPORATES DETAILS about rituals and customs Lo studied in graduate school. And, like all good fairytales, it has a happy ending.

As an anthropologist, Lo examined marriage. Over the summer, she says, she and Lovell wed, though the state does not legally recognize their marriage. The couple missed the slim window of opportunity—from June through November 2008, before voters passed the gay-marriage ban—for same-sex couples to wed legally in California.

Lo and Lovell had only known each other for about a year when they had the chance to legally marry. They contemplated rushing their wedding last year but decided against it. "It would have felt a little like a shotgun wedding," Lo says. "It didn't seem right to push it.

"I would love to get married legally. It's too bad. Hopefully things are going to change."

Things have changed more than Lo ever imagined when she was in college and first found herself attracted to women. In the 1990s, for example, she says she never could have imagined talk of same-sex marriage.

"Marriage is really important," she says. "As an anthropologist, I've spent so much time studying marriage, family and kinship, and to have gay people enter that institution is a major step. I'm waiting to do it. I'd love to do it."

For more information on Spectrum LGBT Center's youth groups, go to spectrumlgbtcenter.org.

This story was published in the Pacific Sun on 10/23/09

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Defend Marriage Equality in Maine!

The results of the most recent poll on Maine’s Proposition 1 battle were released: 51.8 percent of people who plan to vote in November say they will likely vote no on Prop 1, to protect LGBT couples’ freedom to marry. It also shows that 42.9 percent plan to vote against marriage equality. Five percent remain undecided.

While the numbers are encouraging, we know that this will be a tight, razor-thin election. The numbers are too close, and there is just too much at risk for us to be complacent. We’ve seen in our battle against California’s Proposition 8 how opponents of marriage equality pull their most desperate tricks in the final hours. And we know that they’re using the very same campaign of lies in Maine. In fact, they’re even using the same TV ads!

We can’t let them win. We can’t let them continue to deny us the precious right to marry who we love. That’s why we need to continue to work every day to secure every vote we can until November.

Please sign up for a virtual phone bank. All you need is a phone, a couple of hours, and a computer to secure critical votes for marriage equality. Every phone call counts!

No on 1/Protect Maine Equality also needs to have all the resources it needs in the final days to November 3. Please donate now! Every contribution is vital.

Please forward this to everyone you know who supports equality. Let them know that we must act now to make sure that we win this important battle for marriage and for our families.

Most importantly, if you live in Maine, get out and vote no on Prop 1. Send in your absentee ballot or vote in person on November 3. Your vote is a vote for equality.

In Solidarity,

Kate Kendell, Esq.
Executive Director
National Center for Lesbian Rights

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

DOMA Repeal Introduced in Congress

Good news! Today lawmakers introduced legislation to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), a law that discriminates against lawfully married same-sex couples. Through DOMA, the federal government selectively denies same-sex couples more than 1,100 federal protections and responsibilities, including Social Security and immigration benefits, that apply to all other married couples.

The Respect for Marriage Act was introduced in the House by Congressman Jerrold Nadler (D-NY), Chair of the House Judiciary Subcommittee on the Constitution, Civil Rights and Civil Liberties, Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin (D-WI), and Congressman Jared Polis (D-CO). The bill has 91 co-sponsors.

DOMA is discriminatory and harmful to families. Married same-sex couples pay taxes, serve their communities, struggle to balance work and family, raise children, and care for aging parents like other Americans. Their contributions and needs are no different than anyone else’s and their relationships deserve the dignity and protection of federal recognition.

The Respect for Marriage Act would repeal both sections 2 and 3 of DOMA. Section 2 creates an exception to the full faith and credit clause for married same-sex couples. The Respect for Marriage Act would eliminate that provision, but it would leave each state free to decide whether to recognize marriages of same-sex couples from other states. Section 3 excludes same-sex spouses from all federal benefits and protections, including Social Security survivor benefits, the right to file joint taxes, and the right to petition for permanent residence for a foreign spouse. The Respect for Marriage Act would require that the federal government treat all married couples equally.

Our friend and partner Jason Bartlett from the National Black Justice Coalition reminds us of what exactly DOMA has meant for our community. “DOMA is an egregious piece of legislation as it codifies discrimination into federal law. As African Americans, we know all too well the injustices that laws such as this impose on our communities and our families and we are sensitive to the federal government trying to define our families. Let us consign the mistakes of the past to history and move forward together. We call on Congress to pass the Respect to Marriage Act as we continue to fight for our civil rights.”

NCLR is proud to have worked in close cooperation with other groups and lead co-sponsors to help define the scope of the bill to repeal DOMA and to secure federal respect for the marriages of same-sex couples. We support the legislative repeal, as well as the legal overturn, of DOMA.

President Obama has made it clear that he, too, supports an end to DOMA. On June 17, 2009, President Barack Obama said, “I stand by my long-standing commitment to work with Congress to repeal the so-called Defense of Marriage Act. It’s discriminatory, it interferes with states’ rights, and it’s time we overturned it.” The President most recently reiterated his support for the repeal of DOMA in an August 17, 2009 White House statement.

Stay tuned! We're watching the Respect for Marriage Act very closely, and we'll keep you updated on its progress and what you can do to help end discrimination against same-sex couples.

Ever Onward,

Kate Kendell, Esq.
Executive Director
National Center for Lesbian Rights

Monday, June 1, 2009

ONCE AND FOR ALL: What’s next for marriage equality in California?

A Community and Strategy Forum
Wednesday, June 10, 7:00 - 9:00 PM
Acqua Hotel
555 Redwood Highway
Mill Valley

In the wake of the California State Supreme Court's decision to uphold Proposition 8 while letting 18,000 same-sex marriages remain valid, the marriage equality movement is at a crossroads in California.

This forum will provide information about new statewide organizing efforts to win marriage equality back; how the initiative process works for and against that effort; and next steps everyone can take to secure marriage equality in California - once and FOR ALL.

Guest speakers (partial list)

Bob Harmon
ACLU of Northern California, Marin Chapter

Terry Stewart
Attorney who argued before the
California State Supreme Court to overturn Prop 8

Andrea Shorter
Coalitions Coordinator, Equality California

Stuart Gaffney & John Lewis
Plaintiffs in the original Marriage case
Marriage Equality USA & Asian Pacific Islander Equality

This is a free event; donations always welcome to assist with event costs.

Hosted by Spectrum LGBT Center

Co-sponsored by Equality California, Marriage Equality USA (partial list)

To RSVP and for more info call (415) 457-1115 ext. 209

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

A Turning Point for Marriage Equality

This morning, the California Supreme Court, by a 6-1 vote, upheld Proposition 8, which added a section to the California Constitution providing "Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California."

The court also unanimously held that the new constitutional provision applies only prospectively, and does not affect the continued validity of the estimated 18,000 marriages of same-sex couples that occurred prior to November 5, 2008, when the new constitutional provision took effect.

This decision highlights the very serious flaw in our initiative process that allows us to eliminate rights for classes of people so easily. We may be sad, angry, and even incredulous over this decision. But one thing is certain: marriage equality will come to California, as well as the entire nation. And we now have 18,000 legally married same-sex couples to stand with us in this quest.

A number of local, state, and national actions are planned in the wake of the decision. Find out more about these actions here.

If you are in, or close to, Marin County and cannot make it to San Francisco for any of the large rallies, Spectrum and Dan Miller invite you to gather on the garden patio at the Panama Hotel, 4 Bayview Street, San Rafael on Tuesday evening, May 26, from 5:30 - 7:00 PM (no-host bar, light appetizers). Location of Panama Hotel (map)

RALLY THIS SATURDAY IN FRESNO! MEET IN THE MIDDLE FOR EQUALITY to galvanize our forces with a day of unity of all peoples - gay and straight alike. Our peaceful events, including our Equality March and our Equality Rally, share the theme of "United for Equailty". Join with us and then take our vision back to your own communities where we can work together to change our world to include federal level equality, access & justice for all.

MARIN COMMUNITY FORUM, WEDNESDAY, JUNE 10, 7-9 PM, ACQUA HOTEL, MILL VALLEY: Join Spectrum at this community forum featuring a panel of speakers, including Terry Stewart, an attorney who was on the legal team that argued to overturn Proposition 8 before the California Supreme Court. More info coming -- stay up to date by visiting Spectrum's website.

We must continue to believe that justice will prevail.

We must continue to have conversations about marriage equality, and how important they are to us all -- gay and straight alike. Because we know that the conversations are what change the hearts and minds of our friends, families, and neighbors.

We must channel our angry energy toward achieving our goal of equality for all.

I am thinking about a couple of lines from the poem "What I Have Learned So Far" by Mary Oliver:

Can one be passionate about the just, the
ideal, the sublime, and the holy, and yet commit

to no labor in its cause? I don't think so.

All summations have a beginning, all effect has a
story, all kindness begins with the sown seed.
Thought buds toward radiance. The gospel of
light is the crossroads of -- indolence, or action.

Be ignited, or be gone.


Be ignited. Join the cause. Don't give up.

Paula Pilecki
Executive Director
Spectrum LGBT Center
www.spectrumLGBTcenter.org

Friday, May 22, 2009

California State Supreme Court will file its decision regarding Proposition 8 on May 26

ATTENTION MARIN COUNTY: Regardless of which way the decision goes, there will be a gathering in the outdoor patio at Panama Hotel, 4 Bayview Street, San Rafael on Tuesday night, 5:30 - 7:00 PM. If you're not heading in to the City, stop on by and join us. No-host bar and food.

Regardless of the decision, a series of actions will be occurring throughout the state (as well as the country) on Monday night and all day Tuesday. The following information was taken from the San Francisco Community Center's action email. For details on other actions throughout the state and country, visit www.dayofdecision.com.

Events and Actions

EVE of Decision Day
Prayer Service: 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.
Grace Cathedral
100 California Street San Francisco

The night before the announcement of the California Supreme Court’s decision, the Bay Area community is invited to attend an evening of songs and meditation that will center our hearts on peace, healing and understanding. Sponsored by The Bay Area Coalition for Welcoming Congregations, California Faith for Equality, and Equality California*.

Day of Decision
Service/Blessing on Decision Day: 8:30 a.m. – 9:15 a.m.
St. Francis Lutheran Church
152 Church St. San Francisco, across from Castro Safeway

The morning of the decision, Bay Area community members are invited to hear encouraging music and words from community leaders, testimonies from married couples and blessings for those who will be participating in protests or rallies. There will be a march from the church, stopping at the Center and continuing onto Civic Center Plaza. Sponsored by The Bay Area Coalition for Welcoming Congregations, California Faith for Equality, and Equality California*.

March to Civic Center Plaza: 9:15 a.m.

Meet at the San Francisco LGBT Community Center
1800 Market Street @ Octavia
www.sfcenter.org
415.865.5649

On the day of the decision, join fellow Bay Area community members at the Center to march to Civic Center Plaza in unity and preparation for the verdict.

Alternatively, prior to 10:00 a.m., on the Court’s steps (350 McAllister St) you are invited to stand in unity to receive the ruling.

Press Conference covering the California Supreme Court’s Decision

10:30 a.m.
South Light Court, San Francisco City Hall
http://www.nclrights.org/ and http://www.sfgov.org/

Attorneys, joined by religious and civil rights leaders, will discuss the impact of the court’s decision and the next steps moving forward.

Representatives Include:
  • S.F. City Attorney Dennis Herrera and Therese Stewart, San Francisco Chief Deputy City Attorney
  • Kate Kendell, Executive Director, National Center for Lesbian Rights and Shannon Minter, Legal Director, National Center for Lesbian Rights
  • Elizabeth Gill, Staff Attorney, ACLU LGBT & AIDS Project
  • Eva Paterson, President, Equal Justice Society, AMICI
  • Raymond C. Marshall of Bingham McCutchen on behalf of civil rights groups the Asian Pacific American Legal Center, the California State Conference of the NAACP, Equal Justice Society, Mexican American Legal Defense and Education Fund, the NAACP Legal Defense and Education Fund, Inc., amici
  • Geoff Kors, Executive Director and Andrea Shorter, Coalition Coordinator, Equality California
  • Tawal Panyacosit, Director, API Equality
  • Rev. Rick Schlosser, Executive Director, California Council of Churches, amici
  • Same-sex couples
Alternatively at 10:30 a.m., (if the marriage ban is upheld): Circle of Care at Civic Center Plaza, a group of Bay Area clergy and congregants, will engage in nonviolent civil disobedience immediately after receiving the ruling. Visit http://www.onestruggleonefight.org/ for more information.

Evening Rally, March and Gathering
Across the nation several communities will hold gatherings on the day of the decision for us to peacefully share our emotions with one another, show our continuing support for marriage equality and prepare to take the necessary steps to move forward. Emceed by Stuart Gaffney, John Lewis, Lawrence Ellis, Molly McKay and Davina Kotulski.

Rally:
Time: 5:00 PM to 6:00 PM
Location: San Francisco City Hall

March:
Time: 6:00 PM to 6:45 PM
Location: City Hall to End at MLK memorial in Yerba Buena Gardens

Community Gathering:
6:45 PM to 8:30 PM
Location: MLK memorial in Yerba Buena Gardens

Saturday May 30th
Meet in the Middle 4 Equality: 1:00 p.m., Fresno

Meet in the Middle 4 Equality calls for an effort to knit a community that cries for FULL Access, Equality & Justice 4 ALL. Regardless of the decision meet on the steps of City Hall in downtown Fresno at 1pm. Busses leave from the San Francisco LGBT Community Center to Fresno at 8:30 a.m. on Saturday. To RSVP for a seat on the bus, and for more information, visit http://www.meetinthemiddle4equality.com/.


Sunday May 31st
The weekend following the court decision, clergy and worship leaders are encouraged to address the theological, social and emotional effects of the court decision during their worship service. A liturgy will be provided for congregations to use during their worship time. Sponsored by The Bay Area Coalition for Welcoming Congregations, California Faith for Equality, and Equality California*


*The coalition of co-sponsors also includes Jewish Mosaic, California Council of Churches, Progressive Jewish Alliance, Freedom in Christ Church of San Francisco, Metropolitan Community Church, The Fellowship, Unitarian Universalist Legislative Ministry of California, Glide Memorial Church, Marriage Equality USA, and the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies at the Pacific School of Religion.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

San Francisco Event: Town Hall meeting on Monday, April 13

Join Equality California and San Francisco LGBT Center this coming Monday, April 13, from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. for a town hall meeting.

Location:
San Francisco LGBT Center
1800 Market Street
San Francisco, CA

This is your opportunity to hear about how local and statewide organizations are working for LGBT equality and to secure the freedom to marry.

Kate Kendell and Shannon Minter of the National Center for Lesbian Rights will discuss the legal challenges to Prop 8, Geoff Kors of Equality California will give an update on pending legislation to advance LGBT rights, and representatives of a number of groups will discuss the important work they are doing here and across the state, including: API Equality, Our Family Coalition, Marriage Equality USA, the ACLU of Northern California, and Equality California.

The last half of the town hall will be an open-forum discussion about next steps, both on the day of the Supreme Court decision and in the overall quest to secure our full equality.

Join us and let your voice be heard!

Thursday, April 9, 2009

A message from Marriage Equality USA

Fellow Marriage Equality Supporters:

While we wait anxiously here in California for the Supreme Court to issue their decision, we celebrate the unanimous decision in Iowa, the override of the Governor’s Veto in Vermont and the unanimous vote to recognize marriage equality in D.C. which gives us hope that California will restore marriage equality soon too! No matter what the decision from the court, momentum is on our side, and we must be prepared.

TAKE ACTION ON DAY OF DECISION

Win or lose, we want to provide our community with an outlet to express their emotions, show support for marriage equality, and contextualize this moment within the larger civil rights movement.

The Evening that the Court rules on Prop 8
5-6pm Pre-March Rally @ San Francisco City Hall
6-7pm March to MLK Memorial at Yerba Buena Gardens
7-8:30 Pre-March Rally @ Yerba Buena Gardens (4th@Mission)

The Court provides 24 hours notice of when it will issue its decision. Typically the Court has issued its decisions on Thursday and Mondays. The court will rule anytime in the next 60 days. The last possible date is June 3rd , but the rumor is that the Court will rule earlier on this decision - no one knows for sure.

We are looking for couples, families, advocates, single folks, youth, and others to speak out on Decision Day and share their story. In particular we are looking for couples able to be at the California Supreme Court steps at 10:30am as the decision is handed out. If interested, please contact media at marriageequality.org with your name(s), phone number, who you are (i.e. couple, student, advocate, etc…), ethnicity, and languages spoken.)

Finally, as we move forward in the fight, regardless of the decision, we will need to be proactive and share our stories and let people into our lives wherever we can. Therefore, Marriage Equality USA is continuing to compile a list of any and all upcoming events (meetings, festivals, fairs, conferences, etc…).

If you know of any events, small or large, that we should target to get the word out and continue to build support, please contact your local chapter leaders. Visit www.marriageequality.org for more information.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Vermont Rules for Marriage!

Vermont Rules!

"But today, Vermont proved, once again, what we all know--that marriage equality makes a tremendous difference for gay and lesbian couples and families, and those who love and care about them. And for the rest of society, it's not a big deal. In fact, I am positive if you were to poll Vermonters today, a strong majority would say they are proud to be the first state to have passed marriage through their legislature and enacted into law.

For us in California, this shows that anything short of marriage—whether it is called civil unions, domestic partnerships or anything else —doesn't suffice. Full equality is marriage, plain and simple."

- Marc Solomon,
Marriage Director, Equality California


Read more here: http://ca-ripple-effect.blogspot.com/2009/04/vermont-rules.html

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Help Us Make History - Eve of Justice

Eve of Justice and Day of Hearing Volunteer Planning

Marriage Equality USA Call for Volunteers

On March 5th, the California Supreme Court will hear arguments on why Prop 8 should be repealed. We have two events we’d like you to participate in on this historic occasion. We need volunteers to help make these events a huge success. If you want to volunteer, see VOLUNTEER DETAILS below.

On Wednesday, March 4th we begin The Eve of Justice rally at Harvey Milk Plaza and hear from speakers including Cleve Jones and Dustin Black (Academy Award Winner for the Milk screenplay). From 5-6pm we will March Forth from the Castro to the California Supreme Court at Civic Center Plaza for an inspirational Candlelight Vigil and Rally for previews from the legal advocates who will be presenting reasons on why the Court must overturn Prop 8, entertainment and inspiring speakers from communities and organizations that are invested in equality for all.

The, join us on Thursday, March 5th at Civic Center Plaza (just outside the steps of the California Supreme Court). We will begin at 7:30am with a Hope and Justice Program led by supportive faith leaders who believe Prop 8 must be overturned and then from 9am to noon we will gather with thousands of others to watch the oral arguments on a jumbtron.

VOLUNTEER DETAILS - sign up and contact information below

We need to volunteers to help distribute post cards at BART stations and other locations beginning with the Wednesday commute.

Wednesday at 3:00 Pre-Rally Preparation

Metropolitan Community Church
150 Eureka Street
San Francisco

We need volunteers to assemble signs and candles, organize for distributing signs, candles, chant sheets, stickers and collecting signatures.

Wednesday after 5:00 at the Rally

Castro and Market
Meet Marriage Equality USA organizers at Harvey Milk Plaza (Corner of Castro and Market)
During the Rally we need volunteers to distribute signs, candles, chant sheets, stickers and collect signatures and donations.

At 5:45 we need volunteers to organize the beginning of the March and to stand along the March route on Market Street.

Wednesday after 7:00 at the Vigil

Meet Marriage Equality USA organizers at the Marriage Equality USA canopy located at Civic Center Plaza

During the Vigil we need we need volunteers to distribute signs, candles, chant sheets, stickers and collect signatures and donations.

At the end of the Vigil we need volunteers to collect signs and bring them to the Marriage Equality USA canopy located at Civic Center Plaza

Thursday from 7:30 until end of Jumbotron viewing of the hearing

We need volunteers to distribute signs and stickers and collect signatures and donations and to collect signs at the end of the hearing.

Meet Marriage Equality USA organizers at the Marriage Equality USA canopy located at Civic Center Plaza

HOW TO SIGN UP

Send an email to pamela@marriageequality.org with your:

• Name
• Arrival time
• Cell phone numbers so we can have a list the day of the rally.
• Twitter ID if you have one
• T-shirt size if you want the new Marriage Equality USA T-shirt for a $5 donation

EVEN IF YOU CAN’T VOLUNTEER

Blast this call for volunteers out to everyone you know. It doesn’t hurt if more than one of us contacts the same individuals or organizations.

Eve of Justice - Marin County Carpool - Join Us!

Join us in the Eve of Justice Marin County Carpool to San Francisco. We will leave by 4 to get there and park for the 5:00 rally. A meeting location will be chosen when we know the most convenient place for participants. If you are interested call;

Dolores Caruthers - 415-497-6469
or Karen Smith - 415-847-2098

For more information about the Rally and March go to:
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/event.php?eid=129673880452

If you are getting there on your own look for the Marin County folks. We will have a sign.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Free Seminar for Same Sex Married Couples & Registered Domestic Partners

The Honorable John Chiang
California State Controller

in cooperation with

Assemblymember Dave Jones
9th Assembly District

and

Councilmember Ray Tretheway
Council District 1

cordially invite you to attend a

Free Seminar for Same Sex Married Couples
& Registered Domestic Partners


DATE: Wednesday, March 18, 2009

TIME: 5:30 - 9:00 p.m.

WHERE: Sacramento City Hall
915 I Street, Council Chambers
Sacramento, CA 95814

Topics Include:
  • A discussion of new filing requirements for same sex married couples, new benefits for qualified taxpayers and other practical filing tips and advice to ensure accurate tax returns;
  • Learn practical estate planning tips and advice for same sex married couples and registered domestic partners; and,
  • An overview of lawsuits surrounding same sex marriage.
Please respond by March 16, 2009. For additional information, please call (916) 322-7535 or download the flyer.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Support the NAACP’s Opposition to Prop 8

A letter from Kate Kendell, Esq., Executive Director
National Center for Lesbian Rights

You may have heard the great news recently that the NAACP came out in support of the California legislature’s resolution against Prop 8. NAACP national board chair Julian Bond and President and CEO Benjamin Todd Jealous urged passage of House Resolution 5 and Senate Resolution 7, resolutions calling for the invalidation of Prop 8.

The NAACP has been a long-time supporter of full equality for all citizens, and their stance on marriage equality is just further evidence of their deep and abiding commitment to equal rights. Their leadership throughout the fight for marriage equality has been invaluable. Having such a visible and powerful ally has transformed the conversation about marriage equality, not just in California, but across the nation. We are deeply indebted to the NAACP for their vocal support, which is why we need you to speak up and show your support ASAP. The resolutions are expected to be voted on by March 2nd.

Here are a few ways you can get involved:

Contact your NAACP State Conference president, local NAACP Branch president, and anyone else within the NAACP:
4805 Mt. Hope Drive
Baltimore MD 21215

Toll Free: (877) NAACP-98
Local: (410) 580-5777


Post a note on the NAACP page on Facebook
We would not be where we are today without the strength and support of our allies. Please take the time to thank them.

In Solidarity,


Kate Kendell, Esq.
Executive Director
National Center for Lesbian Rights